PROVERBS

1. SPRIT LAWS

1.1. Fools vs Wise

1.1.1. Summary: - The main characteristic is that a fool frets against the Lord, a wise person seeks to find His will and obey Him at any cost and will never let go of His precepts. - The other main characteristic that makes a person a fool is to believe they are wise in their own eyes and to trust in their own heart - No one wants to believe they are or have been a fool, so Proverbs makes it clear for us through a series of “if… then’s…” - If we do something that a fool does, we are fools. But if we repent and choose to do what wise people do, it is as easy as that to become wise. - We are warned, however, not to fall into the trap of interacting with someone who is intent on their foolishness. - Do not share your wisdom and speak in the presence of a fool. - It is an unfortunate reality that a person intent on their foolishness will not receive the very correction that would save his life and soul from destruction - Actually, their foolishness becomes their source of joy, and their wrath is unending - The one time when we are told to correct the fool is only so that other wise people may see and receive the correction - For parents, we must discipline well throughout their childhood, or we will ourselves suffer the fools we have raised - There is one inescapable guarantee for fools however, they will be judged and they will receive beatings throughout their lives and worse in the end

1.1.2. Key Verses

1.1.2.1. Becoming a Fool

1.1.2.1.1. 28:26 definition: He who trusts in his own heart is a fool...

1.1.2.1.2. 13:20 He who walks with wise men will be wise, But the companion of fools will be destroyed.

1.1.2.1.3. 19:3 The foolishness of a man twists his way, And his heart frets against the Lord.

1.1.2.2. Avoiding Fools

1.1.2.2.1. 27:3 A stone is heavy and sand is weighty, But a fool’s wrath is heavier than both of them.

1.1.2.2.2. 23:9 Do not speak in the hearing of a fool, For he will despise the wisdom of your words.

1.1.2.3. The End of Fools

1.1.2.3.1. 19:29 Judgments are prepared for scoffers,And beatings for the backs of fools.

1.1.2.4. The Pain of Fools

1.1.2.4.1. 19:13 A foolish son is the ruin of his father, And the contentions of a wife are a continual [c]dripping.

1.1.2.4.2. 14:The wise woman builds her house, But the foolish pulls it down with her hands.

1.1.2.4.3. 15:21 Folly is joy to him who is destitute of [h]discernment, But a man of understanding walks uprightly.

1.1.3. Supporting Verses

1.1.3.1. 10:13 Wisdom is found on the lips of him who has understanding, But a rod is for the back of him who [c]is devoid of understanding.

1.1.3.1.1. Unfortunately, words will not work for a fool. The rod is the only device left.

1.1.3.2. 13:16 Every prudent man acts with knowledge, But a fool lays open his folly.

1.1.3.3. 17:12,24-25; 18:2; 19:3 (his heart frets against the Lord); 19:29; 23:9 do not speak

1.1.3.4. 17:12 Let a man meet a bear robbed of her cubs, Rather than a fool in his folly. 17:16 Why is there in the hand of a fool the purchase price of wisdom, Since he has no heart for it? 17:21 He who begets a scoffer does so to his sorrow, And the father of a fool has no joy. 17:24 Wisdom is in the sight of him who has understanding, But the eyes of a fool are on the ends of the earth. 17: 25 A foolish son is a grief to his father, And bitterness to her who bore him.

1.1.3.5. 19:0 Luxury is not fitting for a fool, Much less for a servant to rule over princes.

1.1.3.6. 20 There is desirable treasure, And oil in the dwelling of the wise, But a foolish man squanders it.

1.1.3.7. 27:22 Though you grind a fool in a mortar with a pestle along with crushed grain, Yet his foolishness will not depart from him.

1.1.3.8. 24:7 Wisdom is too lofty for a fool; He does not open his mouth in the gate.

1.1.3.9. 26:3 A whip for the horse, A bridle for the donkey, And a rod for the fool’s back. 4 Do not answer a fool according to his folly, Lest you also be like him. 5 Answer a fool according to his folly, Lest he be wise in his own eyes. 6 He who sends a message by the hand of a fool Cuts off his own feet and drinks violence. 7 Like the legs of the lame that hang limp Is a proverb in the mouth of fools. 8 Like one who binds a stone in a sling Is he who gives honor to a fool. 9 Like a thorn that goes into the hand of a drunkard Is a proverb in the mouth of fools. 10 [a]The great God who formed everything Gives the fool his hire and the transgressor his wages. 11 As a dog returns to his own vomit, So a fool repeats his folly. 12 Do you see a man wise in his own eyes? There is more hope for a fool than for him.

1.1.3.10. 29:9 If a wise man contends with a foolish man, Whether the fool rages or laughs, there is no peace. 29:19 A servant will not be corrected by mere words; For though he understands, he will not respond.

1.2. BLESSING VS CURSING

1.2.1. Summary: - There are a great many blessings and curses throughout the Proverbs, which are really just the inescapable consequences of choosing righteousness and good, or choosing wickedness and sin - It is important to know that no curse will alight on you if you choose to walk in love and purity - There are several categories of warnings though, which bring surprising curses. Such as ignoring the poor, blessing friends loudly, maligning a master to his servant, etc. - Cities and lands can be cursed by wickedness. The Righteous must arise and restore it to blessing. - Those who curse others are guaranteed to fall into their own pit

1.2.2. Key Verses

1.2.2.1. 26:2 Like a flitting sparrow, like a flying swallow, So a curse without cause shall not alight.

1.2.2.2. 11:11 By the blessing of the upright the city is exalted, But it is overthrown by the mouth of the wicked.

1.2.2.3. 26:27 Whoever digs a pit will fall into it, And he who rolls a stone will have it roll back on him.

1.2.2.4. 28:27 He who gives to the poor will not lack, But he who hides his eyes will have many curses.

1.2.3. Supporting Verses

1.2.3.1. 27:14 He who blesses his friend with a loud voice, rising early in the morning, It will be counted a curse to him.

1.2.3.1.1. By choosing not to see and help… curses!

1.2.3.2. 30:10 Do not malign a servant to his master, Lest he curse you, and you be found guilty.

1.2.3.3. 30:21 For three things the earth is perturbed, Yes, for four it cannot bear up: 22 For a servant when he reigns, A fool when he is filled with food, 23 A [e]hateful woman when she is married, And a maidservant who succeeds her mistress.

1.3. HEALTH

1.3.1. Summary: - It is a challenging spiritual law that we cannot have sickness if we follow God’s commands… - Chapter 3 alone makes it clear: If we carry God’s commandments as the unbreakable law of our heart then, we are promised days that are filled with life, and many of them. - Anything short of that means disobedience or ignorance of God’s ways, and both have the same result.

1.3.2. Key Verses

1.3.2.1. Healthy Heart

1.3.2.1.1. Proverbs 17:22: "A merry heart does good, like medicine, but a broken spirit dries the bones." (Mentions the link between emotional well-being and physical health)

1.3.2.1.2. Proverbs 14:30: "A sound heart is the life of the flesh: but envy the rottenness of the bones."

1.3.2.1.3. Proverbs 15:13: "A merry heart makes the face cheerful, but heartache crushes the spirit."

1.3.2.2. God’s Wisdom

1.3.2.2.1. 3:1-2

1.3.2.2.2. Proverbs 3:8: "It will be health to your flesh, and strength to your bones." Proverbs 4:22: "For they are life to those who find them, and health to all their flesh."

1.3.2.3. Wise Words

1.3.2.3.1. Proverbs 12:18: "There is rashness that leads to bloodshed, but the tongue of the wise brings healing." Proverbs 16:24: "Pleasant words are like a honeycomb, sweetness to the soul and health to the bones."

1.3.2.4. Evil Friends

1.3.2.4.1. Proverbs 13:21: "Evil companions are like destructive fires; they will burn you to the bone."

1.4. JUSTICE

1.4.1. Summary: - Justice is part of our God’s nature. To violate it is an abomination to Him. - Bribes that corrupt justice are in this category. Punishing the righteous is the same corruption in God’s eyes. - Wicked people who refuse to do justice will be destroyed by their own wickedness. - Interestingly, one of the ways to get a blessing is to rebuke the wicked. - It is important to understand that in the Lord’s eyes, justice requires doers, and we are the ones required to do it

1.4.2. Key Verses

1.4.2.1. 21:7 The violence of the wicked will [d]destroy them, Because they refuse to do justice.

1.4.2.2. 24: 23 These things also belong to the wise: It is not good to [d]show partiality in judgment. 24 He who says to the wicked, “You are righteous,” Him the people will curse; Nations will abhor him. 25 But those who rebuke the wicked will have delight, And a good blessing will come upon them.

1.4.2.3. The path of the just shines ever brighter…

1.4.2.4. 29:27 An unjust man is an abomination to the righteous,\ And he who is upright in the way is an abomination to the wicked

1.4.2.5. 18:17 The first one to plead his cause seems right, Until his neighbor comes and examines him.

1.4.2.6. 21:3 To do righteousness and justice Is more acceptable to the Lord than sacrifice. 21:15 It is a joy for the just to do justice, But destruction will come to the workers of iniquity.

1.4.2.6.1. Justice is something we must “do."

1.4.2.7. 29:26 Many seek the ruler’s favor, But justice for man comes from the Lord.

1.4.2.8. 31:8 Open your mouth for the speechless, In the cause of all who are [b]appointed to die. 9 Open your mouth, judge righteously, And plead the cause of the poor and needy.

1.4.2.9. 29:4 The king establishes the land by justice, But he who receives bribes overthrows it.

1.4.3. Supporting Verses

1.4.3.1. 18: 5 It is not good to show partiality to the wicked, Or to overthrow the righteous in judgment.

1.4.3.2. 17:15 He who justifies the wicked, and he who condemns the just, Both of them alike are an abomination to the Lord. 17:23 A wicked man accepts a bribe [h]behind the back To pervert the ways of justice. 17:26 Also, to punish the righteous is not good, Nor to strike princes for their uprightness.

1.4.3.3. 28:Evil men do not understand justice, But those who seek the Lord understand all.

1.4.3.4. 28:21 To [d]show partiality is not good, Because for a piece of bread a man will transgress.

1.4.3.5. 13:23 Much food is in the [c]fallow ground of the poor, And for lack of justice there is [d]waste.

1.4.3.6. 16:8 Better is a little with righteousness, Than vast revenues without justice.

1.4.3.7. 17:23; 29:4

1.5. KINGSHIP

1.5.1. Summary: - These are useful to pray for our leaders... - Know that the king’s heart is in the hand of the Lord - The mouth of a king is held to an even higher standard - Righteousness establishes their throne, wickedness tears it down - They type of person whom the King will befriend: has grace and purity

1.5.2. Key Verses

1.5.2.1. 20:The king’s heart is in the hand of the Lord, Like the [a]rivers of water; He turns it wherever He wishes.

1.5.2.2. 22:11 He who loves purity of heart And has grace on his lips, The king will be his friend.

1.5.2.3. 29:2 When the R are in authority, the people rejoice; but when a wicked man rules, the people groan.” 29:4 The king establishes the land by justice, But he who receives bribes overthrows it.

1.5.2.4. 12 If a ruler pays attention to lies, All his servants become wicked. 14 The king who judges the poor with truth, His throne will be established forever.

1.5.2.5. 16:13 “Righteous lips are the delight of Kings…”

1.5.3. Supporting Verses

1.5.3.1. 16:10 Divination is on the lips of the king; His mouth must not transgress in judgment.

1.5.3.2. 12 It is an abomination for kings to commit wickedness, For a throne is established by righteousness. 13 Righteous lips are the delight of kings, And they love him who speaks what is right. 14 As messengers of death is the king’s wrath, But a wise man will appease it. 15 In the light of the king’s face is life, And his favor is like a cloud of the latter rain.

1.5.3.3. 17:7 Excellent speech is not becoming to a fool, Much less lying lips to a prince.

1.5.3.4. 19:0 Luxury is not fitting for a fool, Much less for a servant to rule over princes.

1.5.3.5. 19:12 The king’s wrath is like the roaring of a lion, But his favor is like dew on the grass.

1.5.3.6. 20:2 The [a]wrath of a king is like the roaring of a lion; Whoever provokes him to anger sins against his own life. 20:8 A king who sits on the throne of judgment Scatters all evil with his eyes. 20:26 A wise king sifts out the wicked, And brings the threshing wheel over them. 20:28 Mercy and truth preserve the king, And by [f]lovingkindness he upholds his throne

1.5.3.7. 25:2 It is the glory of God to conceal a matter, But the glory of kings is to search out a matter. 3 As the heavens for height and the earth for depth, So the heart of kings is unsearchable. 4 Take away the dross from silver, And it will go to the silversmith for jewelry. 5 Take away the wicked from before the king, And his throne will be established in righteousness. 6 Do not exalt yourself in the presence of the king, And do not stand in the place of the great; 7 For it is better that he say to you, “Come up here,” Than that you should be put lower in the presence of the prince, Whom your eyes have seen.

1.5.3.8. 28:2 Because of the transgression of a land, many are its princes; But by a man of understanding and knowledge Right will be prolonged.

1.5.3.9. 28:15 Like a roaring lion and a charging bear Is a wicked ruler over poor people. 28:16 A ruler who lacks understanding is a great oppressor, But he who hates covetousness will prolong his days.

1.5.3.10. 28:28 When the wicked arise, men hide themselves; But when they perish, the righteous increase.

1.6. NUMBERS

1.6.1. 7’s

1.6.1.1. 1. The Number Seven: 7 Things God Hates (Proverbs 6:16-19): Missler sees this as representing God's absolute standards and the severity of these offenses. 7 Falls of the Righteous (Proverbs 24:16): This signifies God's enduring grace and forgiveness, allowing for growth even through failures. 7 Proverbs about Fools (Proverbs 26:1-11): This highlights the repetitive nature of foolish behavior and its predictable consequences. 7 Days of Creation (Proverbs 8:22-31): Missler links this to the wisdom of God demonstrated in creation and the importance of aligning with His principles.

1.6.2. 3’s

1.6.2.1. 3 Desires for a Fulfilling Life (Proverbs 30:8-9): This represents moderation, contentment, and dependence on God's provision. 3 Qualities of Future Leaders (Proverbs 22:29): Diligence, trustworthiness, and service are identified as key attributes for success. 3 Blessings for the God-fearing (Proverbs 3:33): Long life, prosperity, and peace are seen as the ultimate rewards for living in obedience. 3 Strands in a Braided Cord (Proverbs 4:11-12): Missler interprets this as representing the interconnectedness of wisdom, knowledge, and understanding in achieving true success.

1.6.3. Fibo’s

1.6.3.1. The Fibonacci Sequence: Evil Companions and Exponential Destruction (Proverbs 13:21): Missler sees the increasing number of companions in the Fibonacci sequence as a metaphor for the compounding effect of bad company. Karma and Rolling Stone Consequences (Proverbs 26:27): The snowballing nature of the Fibonacci sequence reflects the escalating consequences of negative actions. Spiral of Wisdom and Growth (Proverbs 4:7-8): Missler views the spiral pattern as representing the continuous and progressive nature of wisdom acquisition.

1.6.4. Chiastics

1.6.4.1. 4. Chiastic Structure: Proverbs 1-4: This structure, mirroring verses across chapters, emphasizes the contrasting paths of wisdom and foolishness. Proverbs 8-9: Missler sees a chiastic structure highlighting the contrast between God's wisdom and human folly. Proverbs 22-23: The chiasm here focuses on the consequences of good and bad choices, illustrating the interconnectedness of actions and outcomes.

1.6.5. Others

1.6.5.1. 5. Other Patterns: The Number 12: Missler identifies 12 themes in Proverbs 1-9, representing the foundation of godly living. The Number 40: This number appears multiple times, symbolizing testing, preparation, and transformation. Prime Numbers: Missler suggests prime numbers like 5 and 7 represent completeness and God's perfect design.

1.6.6. 12

1.6.6.1. The Number 12: In Proverbs 1-9, Missler identifies 12 recurring themes that he believes form the foundational principles of godly living. These themes include: The fear of the Lord: The foundation of all wisdom and understanding. Wisdom and knowledge: Essential for making right choices and living a fulfilling life. Foolishness and wickedness: Contrasting paths to lead to destruction. Speech and words: The power of words to build up or tear down. Relationships and family: The importance of healthy family dynamics and avoiding bad influences. Work and diligence: Diligent labor as a way to honor God and provide for oneself and others. Wealth and possessions: The proper perspective on material possessions and avoiding greed. Justice and righteousness: Upholding God's standards of fairness and justice in all aspects of life. Love and compassion: Showing kindness and mercy towards others. Humility and self-control: Avoiding pride and arrogance, and practicing self-discipline. Hope and future: Looking forward to God's promises and living with a positive outlook. God's faithfulness and guidance: Trusting in God's promises and relying on His guidance for life's decisions. Missler argues that these 12 themes are woven throughout the first nine chapters, laying the groundwork for the rest of the book's wisdom. He sees them as foundational principles that, when applied, can lead to a life of meaning and fulfillment.

1.7. ???

1.7.1. 21: 14 A gift in secret pacifies anger, And a bribe [f]behind the back, strong wrath.

1.7.2. 16 Have you found honey? Eat only as much as you need, Lest you be filled with it and vomit.

1.7.3. 7 A satisfied soul [a]loathes the honeycomb, But to a hungry soul every bitter thing is sweet.

1.7.4. 7 Whoever keeps the law is a discerning son, But a companion of gluttons shames his father.

1.7.5. 29:13 The poor man and the oppressor have this in common: The Lord gives light to the eyes of both.

1.7.6. 30:1 There is a generation that curses its father, And does not bless its mother. 12 There is a generation that is pure in its own eyes, Yet is not washed from its filthiness. 13 There is a generation—oh, how lofty are their eyes! And their eyelids are [b]lifted up. 14 There is a generation whose teeth are like swords, And whose fangs are like knives, To devour the poor from off the earth, And the needy from among men. 15 The leech has two daughters— Give and Give! There are three things that are never satisfied, Four never say, “Enough!”: 16 The[c] grave, The barren womb, The earth that is not satisfied with water— And the fire never says, “Enough!”

1.7.6.1. contentment

1.7.7. 30:18 There are three things which are too wonderful for me, Yes, four which I do not understand: 19 The way of an eagle in the air, The way of a serpent on a rock, The way of a ship in the [d]midst of the sea, And the way of a man with a virgin.

2. PEOPLE

2.1. TONGUE

2.1.1. How Wise vs Fools Use Their Mouths

2.1.1.1. Summary - Wise men speak less, and fools at least appear wiser when they speak less: “He who restrains his lips is wise” - A fool has a rod of pride in his mouth and they are driven to make their own foolish thoughts and opinions known. - The fool will therefore be ensnared, eventually, by their own mouths. Their mouths literally call for blows. - Forming an opinion before hearing a matter fully also makes you a fool and will bring you shame. - We must fully hear, and only then, speak.

2.1.1.2. Key Verses

2.1.1.2.1. Hasty Words

2.1.1.2.2. Hearing First

2.1.1.3. Supporting Verses

2.1.1.3.1. 14:3 In the mouth of a fool is a rod of pride, But the lips of the wise will preserve them.

2.1.1.3.2. 10:14 Wise people store up knowledge, But the mouth of the foolish is near destruction.

2.1.1.3.3. 26:23 Fervent lips with a wicked heart Are like earthenware covered with silver dross.

2.1.2. What Wise Say...

2.1.2.1. Summary - Proverbs as a whole is meant to give us wise sayings that are always on our lips and program our minds accordingly - We are to know what is acceptable, while the perverse tongue will be cut out! - A tongue of wisdom promotes health and makes hearts glad. A good report even makes the bones healthy. - A gentle response before rulers can even be powerful enough to break their bones. - Most important, death and life are in the power of the tongue. We must love that power carefully, and eat its fruit!

2.1.2.2. Key Verses

2.1.2.2.1. 12:18 There is one who speaks like the piercings of a sword, But the tongue of the wise promotes health. 23 A prudent man conceals knowledge, But the heart of fools proclaims foolishness. 25 Anxiety in the heart of man causes depression,But a good word makes it glad.

2.1.2.2.2. Many of the sayings in chapter 10, and beyond, are like a programming for our mouth, so that we will have wise “sayings“

2.1.2.2.3. 10: 20 The tongue of the righteous is choice silver; The heart of the wicked is worth little. 21 The lips of the righteous feed many, But fools die for lack of [e]wisdom. 31 The mouth of the righteous brings forth wisdom, But the perverse tongue will be cut out. 32 The lips of the righteous know what is acceptable, But the mouth of the wicked what is perverse.

2.1.2.2.4. 16:21 The wise in heart will be called prudent, And sweetness of the lips increases learning. 16:23 The heart of the wise teaches his mouth, And adds learning to his lips. 16:24 Pleasant words are like a honeycomb, sweetness to the soul and health to the bones…”

2.1.2.2.5. 17:27 He who has knowledge spares his words, And a man of understanding is of a calm spirit. 28 Even a fool is counted wise when he holds his peace; When he shuts his lips, he is considered perceptive.

2.1.2.2.6. 18:20 A man’s stomach shall be satisfied from the fruit of his mouth; From the produce of his lips he shall be filled. 21 Death and life are in the power of the tongue, And those who love it will eat its fruit.

2.1.2.2.7. 21:23 Whoever guards his mouth and tongue Keeps his soul from troubles.

2.1.2.3. Supporting

2.1.2.3.1. 12:14 A man will be satisfied with good by the fruit of his mouth, And the recompense of a man’s hands will be rendered to him.

2.1.2.3.2. 15:4 A [a]wholesome tongue is a tree of life, But perverseness in it breaks the spirit. 15:23 A man has joy by the answer of his mouth, And a word spoken [i]in due season, how good it is! 28 The heart of the righteous studies how to answer, But the mouth of the wicked pours forth evil. 30 The light of the eyes rejoices the heart, And a good report makes the bones [k]healthy.

2.1.2.3.3. 18:4 The words of a man’s mouth are deep waters; The wellspring of wisdom is a flowing brook.

2.1.2.3.4. 24:26 He who gives a right answer kisses the lips.

2.1.2.3.5. 25:11 A word fitly spoken is like apples of gold In settings of silver.

2.1.2.3.6. 25:15 By long forbearance a ruler is persuaded, And a gentle tongue breaks a bone.

2.2. FRIENDS

2.2.1. The gift of friendships & counsel

2.2.1.1. Summary: - The gift of friendship is not a buddy to share your emotions with, but rather someone who sharpens you. - If the people you spend time with do not challenge, inspire and sharpen you, likely you have made foolish friendships. - If people like that avoid your friendship, consider making yourself a better friend, someone who sharpens others and cares for them. - One of the most important benefits of friendships is counsel. He who would have friends must himself also be a friend… - Do you seek counsel and do people seek your counsel? That is being a good friend. Counsel is called the “sweetness of friendship.” - If you wish to succeed in something large such as a war, physical or spiritual, you must have a wise counsel around you, or you will fail. - Everything else that we sometimes call friendship, such as having fun together, is just an after thought to these things which Proverbs says are real friendship - We also see that anyone who does not surround himself with counsel and friendship is destined to fail and to struggle and suffer unnecessarily. - Do you want to know who your friends are? Ask who has challenged and sharpened you. Ask who was there for you in adversity. Ask who tried to counsel you. - It is a lonely life left to those who reject friends such as this. Proverbs says you are raging against all wisdom by isolating yourself from such friends.

2.2.1.2. Key Verses

2.2.1.2.1. Counselors

2.2.1.2.2. Wise Friends

2.2.1.2.3. Being a Friend

2.2.1.3. Supporting Verses

2.2.1.3.1. 12:15 The way of a fool is right in his own eyes, But he who heeds counsel is wise. 20 Deceit is in the heart of those who devise evil, But counselors of peace have joy.

2.2.1.3.2. 15:22; 17:17; 19:20; 19:27; 20:18; 27:10; 27:17

2.2.1.3.3. 26:6 For by wise counsel you will wage your own war, And in a multitude of counselors there is safety.

2.2.1.3.4. 27:9 Ointment and perfume delight the heart, And the sweetness of a man’s friend gives delight by [b]hearty counsel. 10 Do not forsake your own friend or your father’s friend, Nor go to your brother’s house in the day of your calamity; Better is a neighbor nearby than a brother far away.

2.2.2. FRIENDS CORRECT & REBUKE; ENEMIES FLATTER FRIENDS DETERMINE OR DESTROY DESTINIES

2.2.2.1. Summary - A rebuke from a friend is a loving gift. Faithful are the wounds of a friend. - If you reject corrections of this kind, a total irreversible destruction will come upon you. - Proverbs even says that he who hates correction despises his own soul and he will die. This is a life or death decision to make. - We must decide to “love” instruction and correction. - It is only the wise men who can be corrected and rebuked. For fools, they will only respond to beatings. - It is important to discipline scoffers and fools, however, only so that the wise who are watching gain instruction - A false friend is an enemy, and they will flatter you rather than correct you. This is a trap spread for you and him alike!

2.2.2.2. Key Verses

2.2.2.2.1. 15:10 Harsh discipline is for him who forsakes the way, And he who hates correction will die 12 A scoffer does not love one who corrects him, Nor will he go to the wise. 32 He who disdains instruction despises his own soul, But he who heeds rebuke gets understanding.

2.2.2.2.2. 13:18 Poverty and shame will come to him who [b]disdains correction, But he who regards a rebuke will be honored.

2.2.2.2.3. 17:10 Rebuke is more effective for a wise man Than a hundred blows on a fool.

2.2.2.2.4. 28:23 He who rebukes a man will find more favor afterward Than he who flatters with the tongue.

2.2.2.2.5. 27:5 Open rebuke is better Than love carefully concealed. 6 Faithful are the wounds of a friend, But the kisses of an enemy are deceitful.

2.2.2.2.6. 39: 5 A man who flatters his neighbor Spreads a net for his feet.

2.2.2.2.7. 29:He who is often rebuked, and hardens his neck, Will suddenly be destroyed, and that without remedy.

2.2.2.2.8. 12:Whoever loves instruction loves knowledge, But he who hates correction is stupid.

2.2.2.3. Supporting Verses

2.2.2.3.1. 10: 17 He who keeps instruction is in the way of life, But he who refuses correction [d]goes astray.

2.2.2.3.2. 15:31 The ear that hears the rebukes of life Will abide among the wise.

2.2.2.3.3. 21:11 When the scoffer is punished, the simple is made wise; But when the wise is instructed, he receives knowledge.

2.2.2.3.4. 26:12 Like an earring of gold and an ornament of fine gold Is a wise rebuker to an obedient ear.

2.2.2.3.5. 13:18: 15:5; 15:31; 17:10; 27:5-6

2.2.2.3.6. 3:11-12

2.2.2.3.7. 9:7-12 10:8 The wise in heart will receive commands, But [a]a prating fool will [b]fall.

2.2.3. A Friend is Working on Your Behalf Behind your Back

2.2.3.1. Summary - Here we have a touchy subject in our day and age, when people feel they have earned the right to reputations they never earned. - Yet, Proverbs makes some things extremely blunt. - If someone is talking about you, you must ask, did you give them something to talk about? - Is your pride offended, for the very thing you have done to others all through your life? - Now we must ask, is that person working on our behalf to gather facts and confront us, or are they simply tale-bearing with evil intent? - We live in an overly sensitive age where people feel every negative comment about them is uncalled for and an injury to their person. - The intent of evil conversations is to hurt others through talebearing, slander, backbiting or hypocrisy. - If someone must correct you and gather facts and represent others to you whom you have hurt, that is an act of love and correction. And not an easy one to give, either. - If someone is repeating a matter for their own purposes or to simply tell a story, then, they are sinning and will bear the consequences of their sin. - Therefore, whether someone is helping you behind your back, you should be grateful, and if they are sinning against you, they are in trouble, and you should not be concerned except to forgive them - However, once someone has been revealed to be a talebearer/gossip, repeating stories not for your benefit but your harm, disassociate from them - Know this, that if they are lying, they will only last but a brief moment, and then God will reveal the truth and defend your honor, unless you are at fault

2.2.3.2. Key Verses:

2.2.3.2.1. Talebearers

2.2.3.2.2. Slander & Hypocrisy

2.2.3.2.3. Covering Sin

2.2.4. The Trap of the Wrong vs Wise Friendships!

2.2.4.1. - Choose carefully, one group of friends leads you into righteousness, another group leads you astray. Either way, you are being led somewhere by your friends. - It is so powerful, that even if you are not an angry person, by virtue of your friendship with an angry person, you will become angry and be destroyed along with him - Mostly, the decision is made by where you choose to go. Go where drunkards hang out, and you will be one. Go where wicked people hang out, and you will be one… - Do not even enter the path of the wicked, not even one time! Repent and leave it forever if you ever have made the mistake. Flee for your life and your soul’s life!

2.2.4.2. Key Verses

2.2.4.2.1. There is one type of friend we must get

2.2.4.2.2. Evil People

2.2.4.2.3. Thieves

2.2.4.2.4. Hateful People

2.2.4.2.5. Angry People

2.2.4.2.6. 12:26 The righteous should choose his friends carefully, For the way of the wicked leads them astray.

2.2.5. The Trap Pledging for others, friends or strangers alike

2.2.5.1. SUMMARY: - Pledging for others or vouching for them is a trap. There is no upside for anyone involved, and only the risk of ruined friendships and reputations and hurt feelings… - Better to say, “I have a high opinion of the person, but I’m not comfortable vouching for anyone…” - Never agree to cover someone’s debt, assuming they will repay. You will be stuck with the bill. - Better to simply give a love offering and walk away - This is true for your friends, not just distant acquaintances

2.2.5.2. Key Verses

2.2.5.2.1. 6:1-5 Humble and plead

2.2.5.2.2. 11:15 He who is surety[e] for a stranger will suffer, But one who hates [f]being surety is secure.

2.2.5.2.3. 17:18 A man devoid of [c]understanding [d]shakes hands in a pledge, And becomes [e]surety for his friend.

2.2.5.3. Supporting Verses

2.2.5.3.1. 20:16 Take the garment of one who is surety for a stranger, And hold it as a pledge when it is for a seductress.

2.2.5.3.2. 22:26 Do not be one of those who [e]shakes hands in a pledge, One of those who is [f]surety for debts; 27 If you have nothing with which to pay, Why should he take away your bed from under you?

2.2.6. Overstaying welcome

2.2.6.1. 25:17 Seldom set foot in your neighbor’s house, Lest he become weary of you and hate you.

2.3. PARENTS

2.3.1. Responsibility of Children is to bless & be a blessing

2.3.1.1. SUMMARY: - Shockingly powerful blessings and curses are tied up in how children address, follow and bless their parents

2.3.1.2. KEY VERSES

2.3.1.2.1. 20:20 “whoever curses his father or his mother, his lamp will be put out in deep darkness.”

2.3.1.2.2. 11:29 He who troubles his own house will inherit the wind, And the fool will be servant to the wise of heart.

2.3.1.2.3. 30:17 The eye that mocks his father, And scorns obedience to his mother, The ravens of the valley will pick it out, And the young eagles will eat it.

2.3.1.2.4. 10:1 A wise son makes a glad father, But a foolish son is the grief of his mother.

2.3.1.2.5. 17:6 Children’s children are the crown of old men, And the glory of children is their father.

2.3.1.2.6. Obeying & Honoring mother & father

2.3.1.3. SUPPORTING VERSES

2.3.1.3.1. 19:26 He who mistreats his father and chases away his mother Is a son who causes shame and brings reproach.

2.3.1.3.2. 29:24 Whoever robs his father or his mother, And says, “It is no transgression,” The same is companion to a destroyer.

2.3.1.3.3. 23:22 Listen to your father who begot you, And do not despise your mother when she is old.

2.3.2. Responsibility of Parents is to discipline and share wisdom

2.3.2.1. SUMMARY: - Parents, it is not your job to ensure your child has a good time - It is not your job to give him the things “you wish you had.” - The only thing Proverbs points out, over and over, is that it is your job to discipline and to give wisdom. Period. - It is love to discipline, spank, rebuke. It is hate to hold them back from a child who is acting wrongly.

2.3.2.2. KEY VERSES

2.3.2.2.1. 13:24 He who spares his rod hates his son, But he who loves him disciplines him [e]promptly.

2.3.2.2.2. 20:30 Blows that hurt cleanse away evil, As do stripes the inner depths of the heart.

2.3.2.2.3. 23:13 Do not withhold correction from a child, For if you beat him with a rod, he will not die. 23:14 You shall beat him with a rod, And deliver his soul from hell.

2.3.2.2.4. 29:15 The rod and rebuke give wisdom, But a child left to himself brings shame to his mother. 29:17 Correct your son, and he will give you rest; Yes, he will give delight to your soul.

2.3.2.3. SUPPORTING VERSES

2.3.2.3.1. 19:18 Chasten your son while there is hope, And do not set your heart [e]on his destruction. 25 Strike a scoffer, and the simple will become wary; Rebuke one who has understanding, and he will discern knowledge.

2.3.2.3.2. 22:6 Train up a child in the way he should go, And when he is old he will not depart from it. 22:15 Foolishness is bound up in the heart of a child; The rod of correction will drive it far from him.

2.4. HATRED

2.4.1. It is a sin and a trap to despise your neighbor

2.4.1.1. SUMMARY: - We must think highly and considerately of our neighbors. - After all, they have done something right to be living near us, or vice versa. - Likewise, we must never engage in violence against our neighbors

2.4.1.2. Key Verses

2.4.1.2.1. 11:12 He who [d]is devoid of wisdom despises his neighbor, But a man of understanding holds his peace.

2.4.1.3. Supporting Verses

2.4.1.3.1. 16:29 A violent man entices his neighbor, And leads him in a way that is not good. 16:30 He winks his eye to devise perverse things; He [i]purses his lips and brings about evil.

2.4.2. Rebellion begins with Scoffing

2.4.2.1. Summary: - The next step of sin beyond despising your neighbor is to scoff them. - American news has devolved into only scoffing - This activity creates hostility and rebellion to the point of cities burning. - We have seen the literal manifestation of this reality of a spiritual law for many years now.

2.4.2.2. Key Verses

2.4.2.2.1. 17:11 11 An evil man seeks only rebellion; Therefore a cruel messenger will be sent against him.

2.4.2.2.2. 29:8 Scoffers set a city aflame, But wise men turn away wrath.

3. GOD

3.1. FEAR OF LORD

3.1.1. Summary: - There is no such thing as wisdom that starts without the Fear of the Lord. - There is no such thing as wisdom against our Lord or any of His precepts. - The Fear of the Lord is your teacher and instructs you in Wisdom and leads you to Life, Riches & Honor - You cannot even seek forgiveness for sins and atonement without the Fear of the Lord - You actually add years to your life by choosing the Fear of the Lord. But, you shorten your life by choosing to ignore the Fear of the Lord. - Even worse, by despising (ignoring) the Fear of His Word, you are guaranteed to be destroyed.

3.1.2. Key Verses:

3.1.2.1. 1:7 “The Fear of the Lord is the beginning of knowledge, but fools despise wisdom and instruction.”

3.1.2.2. 21: 30 There is no wisdom or understanding Or counsel against the Lord.

3.1.2.2.1. There is no such thing as wisdom against our Lord

3.1.2.3. 1:29 warning

3.1.2.4. 3:7-8

3.1.2.4.1. So how does the Fear of the Lord actually work? When you have a genuine reverence and fear to violate God’s heart or His principles, then you never linger or walk in the presence of evil. You leave it and run the other direction.

3.1.2.5. 9:10-12 10:27 The fear of the Lord prolongs days, But the years of the wicked will be shortened.

3.1.2.5.1. Where to begin? The Fear of the Lord! Years will be added to you!

3.1.2.5.2. On the other hand, the years of the wicked will definitely be shortened!

3.1.2.6. 13:13 He who despises the word will be destroyed, But he who fears the commandment will be rewarded.

3.1.2.7. 15:16 Better is a little with the fear of the Lord, Than great treasure with trouble. 15:33 The fear of the Lord is the instruction of wisdom, And before honor is humility.

3.1.2.8. 16:6 In mercy and truth Atonement is provided for iniquity; And by the fear of the Lord one departs from evil.

3.1.2.8.1. Even repentance and atonement are rooted first in the Fear of the Lord

3.1.2.9. 19:23 The fear of the Lord leads to life, and he who has it will abide in satisfaction; He will not be visited with evil.”

3.1.2.10. 22: 4 By humility and the fear of the Lord Are riches and honor and life.

3.1.3. Supporting Verses:

3.1.3.1. 14:2 He who walks in his uprightness fears the Lord, But he who is perverse in his ways despises Him.

3.1.3.2. 14:2; 14:26-27; 15:3; 15:16; 15:33; 16:6;

3.1.3.3. 24:21 My son, fear the Lord and the king; Do not associate with those given to change; 22 For their calamity will rise suddenly, And who knows the ruin those two can bring?

3.1.3.4. 28:14 Happy is the man who is always reverent, But he who hardens his heart will fall into calamity.

3.2. RIGHTEOUSNESS VS WICKEDNESS

3.2.1. SUMMARY: - Righteousness vs Wickedness is one of the most constant themes in all of Proverbs, along with Wisdom vs Foolishness - The Righteous win all of God’s favor and blessings, while the wicked are guaranteed to suffer His constant wrath and displeasure - Righteousness makes you a lion! Wickedness in your life will manifest in fears and cowardice. - The shocking facts is that there are many verses where God is the one cursing, condemning and destroying those who choose wickedness, while God is the one fighting for, blessing and guiding those who choose His righteousness. - This is how it works: Eventually, every single benefit the wicked won are merely stored up for the righteous. They will lose it all, we will gain it all, who walk in integrity. - The Righteous may fall, but will get back up. The Wicked fall, and never return.

3.2.2. Key Verses

3.2.2.1. LIFE vs DEATH

3.2.2.1.1. 12:28 In the way of righteousness is life, And in its pathway there is no death.

3.2.2.1.2. 10:2-3 2 Treasures of wickedness profit nothing, But righteousness delivers from death. 3 The Lord will not allow the righteous soul to famish, But He casts away the desire of the wicked.

3.2.2.1.3. 10:11 The mouth of the righteous is a well of life, But violence covers the mouth of the wicked.

3.2.2.1.4. 10: 16 The labor of the righteous leads to life, The wages of the wicked to sin.

3.2.2.1.5. 16:17 The highway of the upright is to depart from evil; He who keeps his way preserves his soul.

3.2.2.2. BOLD vs FEARFUL

3.2.2.2.1. The righteous will never be removed, but the wicked will not inhabit the land. This is a foundational rule.

3.2.2.2.2. 28:1 The wicked flee when no one pursues, But the righteous are bold as a lion.

3.2.2.2.3. 10:23 To do evil is like sport to a fool, But a man of understanding has wisdom. 24 The fear of the wicked will come upon him, And the desire of the righteous will be granted. 25 When the whirlwind passes by, the wicked is no more, But the righteous has an everlasting foundation. 10:28 The hope of the righteous will be gladness, But the expectation of the wicked will perish. 29 The way of the Lord is strength for the upright, But destruction will come to the workers of iniquity. 30 The righteous will never be removed, But the wicked will not inhabit the [f]earth.

3.2.2.2.4. 25:26 A righteous man who falters before the wicked Is like a murky spring and a polluted well

3.2.2.2.5. 28:4 Those who forsake the law praise the wicked, But such as keep the law contend with them.

3.2.2.3. BLESSED vs CURSES

3.2.2.3.1. 16:7 When a man’s ways please the Lord, He makes even his enemies to be at peace with him.

3.2.2.3.2. 21:21 He who follows righteousness and mercy Finds life, righteousness, and honor.

3.2.2.3.3. 10:6 Blessings are on the head of the righteous, But violence covers the mouth of the wicked. 7 The memory of the righteous is blessed, But the name of the wicked will rot.

3.2.2.3.4. Evil pursues sinners; but to the R, good shale repaid 13:21

3.2.2.3.5. 21:18 The wicked shall be a ransom for the righteous, And the unfaithful for the upright.

3.2.2.3.6. 22:5 Thorns and snares are in the way of the perverse; He who guards his soul will be far from them. 22:8 He who sows iniquity will reap sorrow, And the rod of his anger will fail.

3.2.2.3.7. 24:15 Do not lie in wait, O wicked man, against the dwelling of the righteous; Do not plunder his resting place; 24:16 For a righteous man may fall seven times And rise again, But the wicked shall fall by calamity.

3.2.2.3.8. 14:34; 16:31; 20:7 “His children are blessed after him…”

3.2.2.3.9. 29:6 By transgression an evil man is snared,\ But the righteous sings and rejoices.

3.2.2.4. GOD’S DELIGHT VS DISGUST

3.2.2.4.1. 15:26 The thoughts of the wicked are an abomination to the Lord, But the words of the pure are pleasant. 29 The Lord is far from the wicked, But He hears the prayer of the righteous.

3.2.2.4.2. 16:31 The silver-haired head is a crown of glory, If it is found in the way of righteousness.

3.2.2.4.3. 21:27 The sacrifice of the wicked is an abomination; How much more when he brings it with wicked intent! 21:29 A wicked man hardens his face, But as for the upright, he [i]establishes his way.

3.2.2.4.4. 15:8 The prayer of the upright

3.2.2.4.5. 15:9 Him who follows righteousness

3.2.2.4.6. 15:26 “The thoughts of the wicked are an abomination to the LORD, but gracious words are pure.

3.2.3. SUPPORTING VERSES

3.2.3.1. 18:3 When the wicked comes, contempt comes also; And with dishonor comes reproach.

3.2.3.2. 20:9 Who can say, “I have made my heart clean, I am pure from my sin”? 20:11 Even a child is known by his deeds, Whether what he does is pure and right.

3.2.3.3. 21:8 The way of [e]a guilty man is perverse; But as for the pure, his work is right. 21:10 The soul of the wicked desires evil; His neighbor finds no favor in his eyes. 21:12 The righteous God wisely considers the house of the wicked, Overthrowing the wicked for their wickedness.

3.2.3.4. 11:4 Riches do not profit in the day of wrath, But righteousness delivers from death. 5 The righteousness of the blameless will [c]direct his way aright, But the wicked will fall by his own wickedness. 7 When a wicked man dies, his expectation will perish, And the hope of the unjust perishes. 8 The righteous is delivered from trouble, And it comes to the wicked instead. 10 When it goes well with the righteous, the city rejoices; And when the wicked perish, there is jubilation. 11 By the blessing of the upright the city is exalted, But it is overthrown by the mouth of the wicked. 18 The wicked man does deceptive work, But he who sows righteousness will have a sure reward. 19 As righteousness leads to life, So he who pursues evil pursues it to his own death. 20 Those who are of a perverse heart are an abomination to the Lord, But the blameless in their ways are His delight. 21 Though they join [g]forces, the wicked will not go unpunished; But the posterity of the righteous will be delivered. 23 The desire of the righteous is only good, But the expectation of the wicked is wrath. 31 If the righteous will be [k]recompensed on the earth, How much more the ungodly and the sinner.

3.2.3.5. 12:2 A good man obtains favor from the Lord, But a man of wicked intentions He will condemn. 3 A man is not established by wickedness, But the root of the righteous cannot be moved. 5 The thoughts of the righteous are right, But the counsels of the wicked are deceitful. 6 The words of the wicked are, “Lie in wait for blood,” But the mouth of the upright will deliver them. 7 The wicked are overthrown and are no more, But the house of the righteous will stand. 12 The wicked covet the catch of evil men,But the root of the righteous yields fruit. 13 The wicked is ensnared by the transgression of his lips,But the righteous will come through trouble. 21 No grave [f]trouble will overtake the righteous, But the wicked shall be filled with evil.

3.2.3.6. 13:5 A righteous man hates lying, But a wicked man is loathsome and comes to shame. 6 Righteousness guards him whose way is blameless, But wickedness overthrows the sinner. 9 The light of the righteous rejoices, But the lamp of the wicked will be put out. 21 Evil pursues sinners, But to the righteous, good shall be repaid. 22 A good man leaves an inheritance to his children’s children, But the wealth of the sinner is stored up for the righteous. 25 The righteous eats to the satisfying of his soul, But the stomach of the wicked shall be in want.

3.2.3.7. 28:10 Whoever causes the upright to go astray in an evil way, He himself will fall into his own pit; But the blameless will inherit good.

3.2.3.8. 28:12 When the righteous rejoice, there is great glory; But when the wicked arise, men [b]hide themselves.

3.2.3.9. 29:16 When the wicked are multiplied, transgression increases; But the righteous will see their fall.

3.3. ATONEMENT

3.3.1. SUMMARY: - This is the pathway to go from wickedness into righteousness, to repent, turn from old ways, and receive atonement - Confess and forsake your sins. You are promised mercy! - Allow the Fear of the Lord to take hold of your life, and you will walk in a new way, departing from evil as the tree of goodness and righteousness grows in your life. - If you see others stumbling toward slaughter, you must work to hold them back as best you can. God sees your heart, and he will render to you according to this.

3.3.2. KEY VERSES

3.3.2.1. 28:13 but whoever confesses and forsakes them will have mercy!

3.3.2.2. 16:6 In mercy and truth Atonement is provided for iniquity; And by the fear of the Lord one departs from evil.

3.3.2.3. 28:13 He who covers his sins will not prosper, But whoever confesses and forsakes them will have mercy.

3.3.2.4. 11:30 The fruit of the righteous is a tree of life, And he who [j]wins souls is wise.

3.3.2.4.1. It is part of our fruit, when we are righteous. You will “know them by their fruit.” Are there souls being saved in your wake, or are their wrecked relationships? The answer tells you if you have gotten the fruit of righteousness growing in your life or not. If not, don’t waste any time. Start growing in righteousness and pouring love into the souls around you today!

3.3.2.5. 24:11 Deliver those who are drawn toward death, And hold back those stumbling to the slaughter. 12 If you say, “Surely we did not know this,” Does not He who weighs the hearts consider it? He who keeps your soul, does He not know it? And will He not render to each man according to his deeds?

3.4. FAITH

3.4.1. God Alone is our Trust

3.4.1.1. Summary: - Trust in God is not optional. Death & Destruction are the only alternatives for trusting in other sources. - If you are tempted to blame God for something and walk out on Him, do not do it. You can bring your heartache to Him, but to deny Him is to desire the grave. - Do not say in your heart, God didn’t do such and such a thing for me, so I don’t trust Him. Trust in God is not optional. It is the command of life. - Trust in God ensures success, happiness and pleasing Him! - We must trust in God only, not Man, not Self, not Riches, not Kings and definitely not other gods. - It is profanity to deny God’s Preeminence and Priority in our lives.

3.4.1.2. Key Verses

3.4.1.2.1. 3:5-6

3.4.1.2.2. 11:28 He who trusts in his riches will fall, But the righteous will flourish like foliage.

3.4.1.2.3. 16:20 He who heeds the word wisely will find good, And whoever trusts in the Lord, happy is he.

3.4.1.2.4. 16:25 There is a way that seems right to a man, But its end is the way of death.

3.4.1.2.5. 18: 10 The name of the Lord is a strong tower; The righteous run to it and are [e]safe.

3.4.1.2.6. 28:26 He who trusts in his own heart is a fool, But whoever walks wisely will be delivered.

3.4.1.2.7. 29:25 The fear of man brings a snare,But whoever trusts in the Lord shall be [f]safe.

3.4.1.2.8. 30:5 Every word of God is [a]pure; He is a shield to those who put their trust in Him. 30:6 Do not add to His words, Lest He rebuke you, and you be found a liar.

3.4.1.2.9. 21:31 The horse is prepared for the day of battle, But deliverance is of the Lord.

3.4.1.2.10. 16:7 “When a man’s ways please the Lord, he makes even his enemies to be at peace with him.”

3.4.1.2.11. 30:7 Two things I request of You (Deprive me not before I die): 8 Remove falsehood and lies far from me; Give me neither poverty nor riches— Feed me with the food allotted to me; 9 Lest I be full and deny You, And say, “Who is the Lord?” Or lest I be poor and steal, And profane the name of my God.

3.4.1.3. Supporting Verses

3.4.1.3.1. 16:1 The preparations[a] of the heart belong to man, But the answer of the tongue is from the Lord. 16:9 A man’s heart plans his way, But the Lord directs his steps.

3.4.1.3.2. 16: Commit[b] your works to the Lord, And your thoughts will be established.

3.4.1.3.3. 18:11 The rich man’s wealth is his strong city,And like a high wall in his own esteem.

3.4.1.3.4. 22:19 So that your trust may be in the Lord; I have instructed you today, even you.

3.4.1.3.5. 16:4 The Lord has made all for Himself, Yes, even the wicked for the day of [c]doom.

3.4.2. God Alone Decides, we Obey

3.4.2.1. Summary: - God is Prominent. We have simply to obey Him, even when we do not understand. - We are told to acknowledge Him in all our ways and to trust in His understanding, not our own - When confused, praise Him anyway! - We are specifically told that there are many (too many) plans in our hearts. Which ones will stand the test of time? Only the ones where we follow God’s counsel.

3.4.2.2. KEY VERSES

3.4.2.2.1. 3:5-7

3.4.2.2.2. 20:24 A man’s steps are of the Lord; How then can a man understand his own way?

3.4.2.2.3. 27:1 Do not boast about tomorrow, For you do not know what a day may bring forth.

3.4.2.2.4. 33 The lot is cast into the lap, But its every decision is from the Lord.

3.4.2.2.5. 19:21 There are many plans in a man’s heart, Nevertheless the Lord’s counsel—that will stand.

3.4.2.3. SUPPORTING VERSES

3.4.2.3.1. 20:12 “The hearing ear and the seeing eye, the Lord has made them both.”

3.4.2.3.2. 16:1; 16:3; 22:2

3.4.2.3.3. 22:2 The rich and the poor have this in common, The Lord is the maker of them all.

3.4.2.3.4. 30:4 Who has ascended into heaven, or descended? Who has gathered the wind in His fists? Who has bound the waters in a garment? Who has established all the ends of the earth? What is His name, and what is His Son’s name, If you know?

3.4.2.3.5. 15:29

3.5. WISDOM vs DEATH

3.5.1. Hearing Wisdom & Keeping is a Decision:

3.5.1.1. Summary: - You are promised to get Wisdom if you seek for her as for your life. Otherwise, you are promised to get a Fool’s Reward. - This diagram (mind map) is your starting place. If you were seeking wisdom as for life, we would devour the truths here and make them our very life principles. - You may find it by holding on carefully to the instruction and law of your father and mother - You must choose your chains: choose chains of gold around your neck by choosing My ways, or violate My ways, and choose chains around your wrists and feet. - The voice of Wisdom will always be crying out, but so will the voice of sin and foolishness. You must choose what you will cry out for! - If you find and keep the Wisdom of God, every good promise is yours: life, health, prosperity, confidence in God, safety from evil, etc. - If you turn away from the Wisdom of God and His laws, every curse is yours, and even your prayers are an abomination to God. - Wisdom, counsel and instruction are in the hearts of wise people around you. You must draw it out yourself from them, too. - If you are unwilling to do this, go to the Humility and Pride section, then come back here. :)

3.5.1.2. Key Verses:

3.5.1.2.1. 1:8-9 “My son, hear the instruction of your father, and do not forsake the law of your mother…”

3.5.1.2.2. 1:20-33

3.5.1.2.3. 2:1-9 “My son, if you receive… treasure… seek… search…"

3.5.1.2.4. 3:21-26.

3.5.1.2.5. 4:20-22

3.5.1.2.6. 28:9 One who turns away his ear from hearing the law, Even his prayer is an abomination.

3.5.1.2.7. 28:9 One who turns away his ear from hearing the law, even his prayer is an abomination

3.5.1.3. Supporting Verses

3.5.1.3.1. 6:20-23

3.5.1.3.2. 15:4 The heart of him who has understanding seeks knowledge,But the mouth of fools feeds on foolishness.

3.5.1.3.3. 16:16 How much better to get wisdom than gold! And to get understanding is to be chosen rather than silver.

3.5.1.3.4. 18: 15 The heart of the prudent acquires knowledge, And the ear of the wise seeks knowledge.

3.5.1.3.5. 19:8 He who gets [b]wisdom loves his own soul; He who keeps understanding will find good. 19:20 Listen to counsel and receive instruction, That you may be wise in your latter days. 19:27 Cease listening to instruction, my son, And you will stray from the words of knowledge.

3.5.1.3.6. 20:5 Counsel in the heart of man is like deep water, But a man of understanding will draw it out. 20:15 There is gold and a multitude of rubies,But the lips of knowledge are a precious jewel.

3.5.1.3.7. 22:17 Incline your ear and hear the words of the wise, And apply your heart to my knowledge; 18 For it is a pleasant thing if you keep them within you; Let them all be fixed upon your lips,

3.5.1.3.8. 23:12 Apply your heart to instruction, And your ears to words of knowledge. 23:23 Buy the truth, and do not sell it,Also wisdom and instruction and understanding.

3.5.1.3.9. 28:11 The rich man is wise in his own eyes, But the poor who has understanding searches him out.

3.5.2. The Value of God’s Wisdom & Commandments

3.5.2.1. Summary: How Valuable is Wisdom? - It produces and promises safety, health, godliness, security, prosperity, influence, promotions, happiness, and life, and fearlessness - To God, Wisdom is how He created everything! Wisdom is His delight. He does not say He created everything by miracles, but by Wisdom. - Wisdom is far better and more valuable than gold - All those who find and Keep Wisdom find life and favor from the Lord; All those who hate wisdom love death. - It is a shocking revelation and fact that some people around us love death, some love life. That should explain a great many mysteries. - We are in fact surrounded by the snares of death, but those who keep God’s commandments avoid them and become fountains of life. - You must be certain in these words of Truth, that is why Proverbs is written to us. - If you keep wisdom, the heart of your parents will rejoice. Reject it, and you will be a shame to them. - Finally, you will have happiness, something most people will never have, if you keep the law and hold onto these revelations!

3.5.2.2. Key Verses:

3.5.2.2.1. 3:13-18

3.5.2.2.2. 3:19-20

3.5.2.2.3. 8:32-36. 35 For whoever finds me finds life, And obtains favor from the Lord; 36 But he who sins against me wrongs his own soul; All those who hate me love death.”

3.5.2.2.4. 13 He who despises the word will be destroyed, But he who fears the commandment will be rewarded. 14 The law of the wise is a fountain of life, To turn one away from the snares of death.

3.5.2.2.5. 22:20 Have I not written to you excellent things Of counsels and knowledge, 21 That I may make you know the certainty of the words of truth, That you may answer words of truth To those who send to you?

3.5.2.2.6. 27:My son, be wise, and make my heart glad, That I may answer him who reproaches me.

3.5.2.2.7. 29:18 Where there is no revelation, the people cast off restraint; But happy is he who keeps the law.

3.5.2.3. Supporting Verses

3.5.2.3.1. 1:1-6 (The Purpose of Proverbs)

3.5.2.3.2. 3:35 - The wise shall inherit glory, but shame shall be the legacy of fools.

3.5.2.3.3. 4:1-13

3.5.2.3.4. 8:1-21

3.5.2.3.5. 8:22-31

3.5.2.3.6. 9:1-6

3.5.2.3.7. 12:8 A man will be commended according to his wisdom, But he who is of a perverse heart will be despised.

3.5.2.3.8. 13:13; 17:2; 19:8; 19:16;

3.5.2.3.9. 16:16 better than gold...

3.5.2.3.10. 16:20 heeds the Word wisely

3.5.2.3.11. 15:20 A wise son makes a father glad, But a foolish man despises his mother. 24 The way of life winds upward for the wise, That he may turn away from [j]hell below.

3.5.2.3.12. 16:2 Understanding is a wellspring of life to him who has it. But the correction of fools is folly.

3.5.2.3.13. 20:29 The glory of young men is their strength, And the splendor of old men is their gray head.

3.5.2.3.14. 21:22 A wise man scales the city of the mighty, And brings down the trusted stronghold.

3.5.2.3.15. 23:15 My son, if your heart is wise, My heart will rejoice—indeed, I myself; 23:16 Yes, my inmost being will rejoice When your lips speak right things. 24 The father of the righteous will greatly rejoice, And he who begets a wise child will delight in him. 25 Let your father and your mother be glad, And let her who bore you rejoice. 26 My son, give me your heart, And let your eyes observe my ways.

3.5.2.3.16. 24:3 Through wisdom a house is built, And by understanding it is established; 4 By knowledge the rooms are filled With all precious and pleasant riches. 5 A wise man is strong, Yes, a man of knowledge increases strength; 24:13 My son, eat honey because it is good, And the honeycomb which is sweet to your taste; 14 So shall the knowledge of wisdom be to your soul; If you have found it, there is a [b]prospect, And your hope will not be cut off.

3.5.3. Discretion & Prudence

3.5.3.1. Summary: - Life is filled with traps to avoid and blessings to pursue. - The more we get, keep and live by wisdom, the more of the traps we avoid and the more of the blessings we reap. - This shows up in discretion, foresight, and self-control

3.5.3.2. Discretion

3.5.3.2.1. Proverbs 1:4: "To give subtlety to the simple, to the young man knowledge and discretion." Proverbs 8:12: "I, wisdom, dwell with prudence, and I find out knowledge of witty inventions." Proverbs 16:22: "Prudence is a fountain of life to the prudent, but folly brings punishment to fools." Proverbs 27:12: "The prudent see danger and hide themselves, but the foolish go on and suffer the consequences." 22:3 A prudent man foresees evil and hides himself, But the simple pass on and are punished.

3.5.3.2.2. 22 As a ring of gold in a swine’s snout, So is a lovely woman who lacks [h]discretion.

3.5.3.3. Foresight

3.5.3.3.1. Proverbs 21:22: "The wise man scales the city of the mighty and brings down the stronghold that they trust in." Proverbs 22:3: "The prudent see danger and hide; the simple go on and suffer the consequences." Proverbs 27:5: "Better is open rebuke than hidden love." Proverbs 28:26: "He who trusts in his own heart is a fool, but he who walks in wisdom will be kept safe."

3.5.3.4. Self Control

3.5.3.4.1. Proverbs 14:17: "A hot-tempered man stirs up strife, but a prudent man calms the quarrel." Proverbs 16:32: "Better a patient man than a warrior, a man who controls his temper than one who takes a city." Proverbs 20:23: "Do not love sleep, or you will become poor; open your eyes, and get your food." Proverbs 25:28: "A city broken down, without walls, is a man without self-control."

3.6. HONOR

3.6.1. SUMMARY: - What you give honor to define you and define your rewards - Do you want to know what you really honor in life? What you give attention to, is what you honor! - Ask, ‘What do you do with the most important part of your possessions, time, energy & thoughts?’ - Do you give it to the Lord with a joyful heart? If you do, the Lord Himself fills your barns and your spirit with new wine

3.6.2. KEY VERSES

3.6.2.1. 3:9-10

3.6.2.2. 27:18 Whoever [d]keeps the fig tree will eat its fruit; So he who waits on his master will be honored.

3.6.3. SUPPORTING VERSES

3.6.3.1. 26:1 As snow in summer and rain in harvest, So honor is not fitting for a fool.

3.6.3.1.1. A fool will simply not have honor, not for more than a fleeting moment, any way

4. HEART ISSUES

4.1. PURITY

4.1.1. Lust and adultery

4.1.1.1. SUMMARY: - There is no other trap or sin which Proverbs commits more effort to helping people avoid than lust and adultery, yet our society downplays this today. - This trap leads to shame, death, and hell. “The dead are there, and her guests are in the depths of hell!” Warn your children while they are young! - Strong men are captive here, and they never regain the paths of life. - Adulterous and lustful women will prey upon your precious soul if you go near them. - There is only one defense. Are you married to God’s law truly in your own heart, do you love Him and His law more than life itself? - If not, you will be the inevitable prey of an adulteress or godless woman/man. - Do you consider yourself strong, then you are especially their target. She will work diligently to capture you. - Hold onto wisdom and run from her paths. Do not pass by her house. Do not catch her eye, or she will catch you in her web. - You need to fear this trap! It is a matter of life and death, heaven and hell! - Finally, you must know, you will never get away with the sin of lust. Your sin will find you out (11:6)

4.1.1.2. KEY VERSES

4.1.1.2.1. 6:24-30

4.1.1.2.2. 7:1-27 Another entire chapter on this!

4.1.1.2.3. 9:13-18

4.1.1.2.4. 11:6 The righteousness of the upright will deliver them, But the unfaithful will be caught by their lust.

4.1.1.3. SUPPORTING VERSES

4.1.1.3.1. 5 (entire chapter)

4.1.1.3.2. 22:14 The mouth of an immoral woman is a deep pit; He who is abhorred by the Lord will fall there.

4.1.1.3.3. 23:26 My son, give me your heart, And let your eyes observe my ways. 27 For a harlot is a deep pit, And a seductress is a narrow well. 28 She also lies in wait as for a victim, And increases the unfaithful among men.

4.1.1.3.4. 21:9; 25:24; 27:15-16;

4.1.1.3.5. 29:3 Whoever loves wisdom makes his father rejoice, But a companion of harlots wastes his wealth.

4.1.1.3.6. 30:20 This is the way of an adulterous woman: She eats and wipes her mouth, And says, “I have done no wickedness.”

4.1.1.3.7. 31:2 What, my son? And what, son of my womb? And what, son of my vows? 3 Do not give your strength to women, Nor your ways to that which destroys kings

4.1.2. The Gift of a Good Wife

4.1.2.1. SUMMARY: - The famous Proverbs 31 shows how important it is to praise our good wives - A good wife is a gift from God, and a crown to our heads.

4.1.2.2. KEY VERSES

4.1.2.2.1. 12: 4 An[a] excellent wife is the crown of her husband, But she who causes shame is like rottenness in his bones.

4.1.2.2.2. 18:22 He who finds a wife finds a good thing, And obtains favor from the Lord.

4.1.2.2.3. Proverbs 31:10-31

4.1.2.2.4. 11:16 A gracious woman retains honor, But ruthless men retain riches.

4.2. HUMILITY

4.2.1. Summary: - Do you operate your life and your relationships according to the principles of pride or humility? - Here is how you may tell: Are your relationships filled with grace, or are you mostly in strife with others? Your relationships reveal your spirit. - The Lord has promised to destroy the house of the proud and He considers you an abomination if you life by the principle of pride! - The principles of pride are: Selfishness, seeking your own glory and respect, refusing correction, believing you have all the answers, and insisting on taking the best for yourself and having others serve you. - The principles of humility are: Selflessness, seeking God’s glory, demoting yourself to serve others, and living by the fear of the Lord always. - Humility and honor are linked together. If you seek to honor God and others, you are humble. If you seek your own honor, you are in pride. - God promises to humble the proud. So we will start or end with humility one way or another. Only those who start with humility get God’s honor. - Pride has its inevitable consequences: Shame, strife, destruction, punishments, falling, and disease? - Humility has its inevitable consequences: Honor from the Lord and others will praise you, riches and life, prospering in Him

4.2.2. Key Verses:

4.2.2.1. 13:10 By pride comes nothing but strife, But with the well-advised is wisdom.

4.2.2.2. 15:25 The Lord will destroy the house of the proud, But He will establish the boundary of the widow.

4.2.2.3. 16:5 Everyone proud in heart is an abomination to the Lord; Though they join [d]forces, none will go unpunished. 16:18 Pride goes before destruction, And a haughty spirit before [f]a fall. 19 Better to be of a humble spirit with the lowly, Than to divide the [g]spoil with the proud.

4.2.2.4. 18:12 Before destruction the heart of a man is haughty, And before honor is humility.

4.2.2.5. 28:25 He who is of a proud heart stirs up strife, But he who trusts in the Lord will be prospered.

4.2.2.5.1. These two always go together: pride and strife

4.2.2.6. 22: 4 By humility and the fear of the Lord Are riches and honor and life.

4.2.2.7. 27:2 Let another man praise you, and not your own mouth; A stranger, and not your own lips.

4.2.3. Supporting Verses

4.2.3.1. 3:34-

4.2.3.1.1. God surely scorns the scornful.That is a wakeup call for any part of our mindset that may be mocking or deriding someone else for their lack of knowledge, wisdom or success. But the gift if humility is very high, because God promises to give grace to the humble. We can simply choose humility, and we are promised His very own grace.

4.2.3.2. 2 When pride comes, then comes shame; But with the humble is wisdom.

4.2.3.3. 21:4 A haughty look, a proud heart, And the [b]plowing of the wicked are sin.

4.2.3.4. 21:24 A proud and haughty man—“Scoffer” is his name; He acts with arrogant pride.

4.2.3.5. Seeking own glory 25:27

4.2.3.6. 29:23 A man’s pride will bring him low, But the humble in spirit will retain honor.

4.2.3.7. 12:9 Better is the one who is [b]slighted but has a servant, Than he who honors himself but lacks bread.l

4.2.3.8. 30:32 If you have been foolish in exalting yourself, Or if you have devised evil, put your hand on your mouth. 33 For as the churning of milk produces butter, And wringing the nose produces blood, So the forcing of wrath produces strife.

4.3. THE HEART

4.3.1. SUMMARY - All the important issues of life begin in our heart. - We always look elsewhere for the cause of any problem, but Proverbs tells us where to begin to look. - The heart is the spirit man, our inner being, and not just the emotions of the soul. - A sorrowful heart can even break the spirit, while a merry heart will show on our whole being. - We are actually commanded not to allow sorrow and grief to take over our spirit, even in times of loss. - If our heart is the principal thing, we must tend to it as the primary duty each day, yet how many people neglect their spirt man for months at a time?

4.3.2. Key Verses:

4.3.2.1. 4:23

4.3.2.1.1. There are very few things we are commanded to do with “all diligence.” Keeping our heart (which is our spirit man), is so utterly important that God says out of it springs the issues of our life. Everything else is minor. This is the major!

4.3.2.2. 15:3 A merry heart makes a cheerful [f]countenance, But by sorrow of the heart the spirit is broken. 15 All the days of the afflicted are evil, But he who is of a merry heart has a continual feast.

4.3.2.2.1. The heart and spirit are united

4.3.2.3. 20:27 The spirit of a man is the lamp of the Lord, Searching all the [e]inner depths of his heart.

4.3.2.4. 16:2 All the ways of a man are pure in his own eyes, But the Lord weighs the spirits.

4.3.3. Supporting Verses

4.3.3.1. 21:2 Every way of a man is right in his own eyes, But the Lord weighs the hearts.

4.3.3.2. 16:2; 16:4

4.3.3.3. 27:19 As in water face reflects face, So a man’s heart reveals the man.

4.3.3.4. 15:11 Hell[d] and [e]Destruction are before the Lord; So how much more the hearts of the sons of men.

4.3.3.5. 17:3 The refining pot is for silver and the furnace for gold, But the Lord tests the hearts.

4.3.3.5.1. 17:3; 20:27; 21:2;

4.4. JOY

4.4.1. SUMMARY - Joy, Happiness and Hope are choices, not the result of good circumstances - Hope is a gift we must pursue and hold onto. Without hope, life is easy to snuff out, joy is depleted, and sickness takes over. - Hope is grounded in having a vision from the Lord about our future, a literal or figurative vision, so we know what His will is. - Without that vision, people fail inwardly, and then they will fail outwardly.

4.4.2. KEY VERSES

4.4.2.1. 17: 22 A merry heart [g]does good, like medicine, But a broken spirit dries the bones.

4.4.2.2. 15:15; 15:30 “The light of the eyes…”;

4.4.2.3. 12 Hope deferred makes the heart sick, But when the desire comes, it is a tree of life.

4.4.2.4. 18:14 The spirit of a man will sustain him in sickness, But who can bear a broken spirit?

4.4.2.5. 15:13 … but by sorrow of the heart, the spirit is broken

4.4.3. SUPPORTING VERSES

4.4.3.1. 25:20 Like one who takes away a garment in cold weather, And like vinegar on soda, Is one who sings songs to a heavy heart.

4.5. ANGER

4.5.1. Ruling over Anger, or it Rules over you!

4.5.1.1. SUMMARY - Proverbs tells us to rule over our spirit & to be slow to anger, or we are called fools! - Anger is an enemy, not an ally. - An angry man abounds in transgression. - Even our enemies should not get our anger, but we should feed them when they are hungry, clothe them when they are cold… - It is important not to make any friendship with an angry person, or you will learn his ways! Anger is therefore an infectious disease! - Let’s not keep a 6 foot distance on that disease, let’s keep a 600 foot rule!

4.5.1.2. KEY VERSES

4.5.1.2.1. 25:28 Whoever has no rule over his own spirit Is like a city broken down, without walls.

4.5.1.2.2. 29:11 A fool vents all his feelings, But a wise man holds them back.

4.5.1.2.3. 16:32 He who is slow to anger is better than the mighty, And he who rules his spirit than he who takes a city.

4.5.1.2.4. 19:11 The discretion of a man makes him slow to anger, And his glory is to overlook a transgression.

4.5.1.2.5. 16 A fool’s wrath is known at once, But a prudent man covers shame.

4.5.1.2.6. 25:21 If your enemy is hungry, give him bread to eat; And if he is thirsty, give him water to drink; 25:22 For so you will heap coals of fire on his head, And the Lord will reward you.

4.5.1.2.7. 29:22 An angry man stirs up strife,And a furious man abounds in transgression.

4.5.1.3. SUPPORTING VERSES

4.5.1.3.1. 17:1 Better is a dry morsel with quietness…

4.5.1.3.2. 14:17; 15:1; 15:18; 16:32; 19:19;

4.5.1.3.3. 20:22 Do not say, “I will [d]recompense evil”; Wait for the Lord, and He will save you.

4.5.1.3.4. 24:17 Do not rejoice when your enemy falls, And do not let your heart be glad when he stumbles; 24:18 Lest the Lord see it, and it displease Him, And He turn away His wrath from him. 24:29 Do not say, “I will do to him just as he has done to me; I will render to the man according to his work.”

4.5.2. The Trap of Contentions & Strife

4.5.2.1. SUMMARY: - Offense and contention are like the releasing of water from a dam, and cannot be controlled once released. - Therefore, we should work hard to avoid strife in every part of our lives an in every relationship. - Every single person has the ability to cause strife, but only the wise have the ability to avoid or correct it. - If there is strife and contention continually in your life, identify and cast out the scoffer. - Remember, it is better to dwell in the corner of a roof than with a contentious spouse. How much more does that apply to every other relationship?

4.5.2.2. KEY VERSES

4.5.2.2.1. 22:10 Cast out the scoffer, and contention will leave; Yes, strife and reproach will cease.

4.5.2.2.2. ??17:Better is a dry morsel with quietness, Than a house full of [a]feasting with strife.

4.5.2.2.3. 17:14 The beginning of strife is like releasing water; Therefore stop contention before a quarrel starts. 17:19 He who loves transgression loves strife, And he who exalts his gate seeks destruction.

4.5.2.2.4. 19:3 It is honorable for a man to stop striving, Since any fool can start a quarrel.

4.5.2.3. SUPPORTING VERSES

4.5.2.3.1. 21:9 Better to dwell in a corner of a housetop, Than in a house shared with a contentious woman. 21:19 Better to dwell [g]in the wilderness, Than with a contentious and angry woman.

4.5.2.3.2. 24 It is better to dwell in a corner of a housetop, Than in a house shared with a contentious woman.

4.5.2.3.3. 26:17 He who passes by and meddles in a quarrel not his own Is like one who takes a dog by the ears.

4.5.2.3.4. 27:15 A continual dripping on a very rainy day And a contentious woman are alike; 16 Whoever [c]restrains her restrains the wind, And grasps oil with his right hand.

4.5.2.3.5. 18:18 Casting lots causes contentions to cease, And keeps the mighty apart. 18:19 A brother offended is harder to win than a strong city, And contentions are like the bars of a castle.

4.6. GOODWILL

4.6.1. LOVE vs HATE

4.6.1.1. SUMMARY: - We must choose love. We must be so far from evil men, that we do not even envy their lives in any way. They are abominations to the Lord. - Where there is strife, look a bit deeper, it started from hatred (10:12) - Envy and Jealousy are forms of hatred and worse than wrath (27:4) - Hate goes so far as murder, the wicked hate the blameless - Those who hate are guilty of returning evil for good. There is a curse over them. Evil will not depart from their house.

4.6.1.2. Key Verses:

4.6.1.2.1. 10:12 Hatred stirs up strife, But love covers all sins.

4.6.1.2.2. 3:29-33

4.6.1.2.3. 27:4 Wrath is cruel and anger a torrent, But who is able to stand before jealousy?

4.6.1.2.4. 29:10 The bloodthirsty hate the blameless, But the upright seek his [b]well-being.

4.6.1.2.5. 17:13 Whoever rewards evil for good, Evil will not depart from his house.

4.6.1.3. Supporting Verses

4.6.1.3.1. 15:17 Better is a dinner of [g]herbs where love is, Than a fatted calf with hatred.

4.6.1.3.2. 23:17 Do not let your heart envy sinners, But be zealous for the fear of the Lord all the day; 23:18 For surely there is a hereafter, And your hope will not be cut off.

4.6.1.3.3. 24:1 Do not be envious of evil men, Nor desire to be with them; 2 For their heart devises violence, And their lips talk of troublemaking. 8 He who plots to do evil Will be called a [a]schemer. 9 The devising of foolishness is sin, And the scoffer is an abomination to men. 24:19 Do not fret because of evildoers, Nor be envious of the wicked;  20 For there will be no prospect for the evil man; The lamp of the wicked will be put out.

4.6.1.3.4. 28:17 A man burdened with bloodshed will flee into a pit; Let no one help him.

4.6.2. KINDNESS & MERCY

4.6.2.1. SUMMARY: - Who is the primary beneficiary of kindness? Jesus stated, it is more blessed to give than to receive..." - Kindness should be extended to friends, animals and enemies - Kindness is the main attribute desired in a man! - Mercy and Truth do not come easily to us humans, and it requires you to actually bind them around your neck and write them on your heart. - You alone must do it. But if you do, you will find the gift of favor and high esteem in the sight of God and man! - It is a form of kindness to be tender with those who are in pain or grief (25:20)

4.6.2.2. Key Verses

4.6.2.2.1. 3:3-4

4.6.2.2.2. 11:17 The merciful man does good for his own soul, But he who is cruel troubles his own flesh.

4.6.2.2.3. 19:22 What is desired in a man is [f]kindness, And a poor man is better than a liar.

4.6.2.2.4. Even to an enemy… 25:21-22

4.6.2.3. Supporting Verses

4.6.2.3.1. 12:10 A righteous man regards the life of his animal, But the tender mercies of the wicked are cruel.

4.6.2.3.2. 29:He who pampers his servant from childhood Will have him as a son in the end.

4.6.2.3.3. 25:20

4.7. INTEGRITY

4.7.1. Lying, Deceit and dishonesty

4.7.1.1. - Deceit covers a whole host of sins, all of which are abominations to God and man: - Integrity is simply your faithfulness and honesty in all situations, no matter the cost. This makes you blameless in God’s eyes. - Faithful men are rare gems, yet everyone pretends to be one. - If you find a true man of faith, integrity and honesty, befriend them for life! Wives, seek them for husbands. - If you find a man who will lie (to you or anyone else) and they will not turn from it for good, you are a fool to remain tied to them. - However, do not be overly concerned with liars in general, even if they are lying about you, as they are cursed by God already and will be destroyed. - Their lying tongues are but for a moment - God Himself has promised to overthrow the words of the faithless!

4.7.1.2. Key Verses

4.7.1.2.1. 12: 19 The truthful lip shall be established forever, But a lying tongue is but for a moment.

4.7.1.2.2. 11:1 Dishonest[a] scales are an abomination to the Lord, But a [b]just weight is His delight.

4.7.1.2.3. 1311 Wealth gained by dishonesty will be diminished, But he who gathers by labor will increase.

4.7.1.2.4. 21:28 A false witness shall perish, But the man who hears him will speak endlessly.

4.7.1.2.5. 22:12 The eyes of the Lord preserve knowledge, But He overthrows the words of the faithless.

4.7.1.2.6. 22 Lying lips are an abomination to the Lord, But those who deal truthfully are His delight.

4.7.1.2.7. 28:6 Better is the poor who walks in his integrity Than one perverse in his ways, though he be rich.

4.7.1.2.8. 28:18 Whoever walks blamelessly will be [c]saved, But he who is perverse in his ways will suddenly fall.

4.7.1.2.9. 20:6 Most men will proclaim each his own [b]goodness, But who can find a faithful man? 20:7 The righteous man walks in his integrity; His children are blessed after him

4.7.1.3. Supporting Verses

4.7.1.3.1. 10: 10 He who winks with the eye causes trouble, But a prating fool will fall.

4.7.1.3.2. 4:24

4.7.1.3.3. 17:4 An evildoer gives heed to false lips; A liar listens eagerly to a [b]spiteful tongue. 17:20 He who has a [f]deceitful heart finds no good, And he who has a perverse tongue falls into evil.

4.7.1.3.4. 19:5 “A false witness will not go unpunished, and he who speaks lies will not escape.” 19:9 A false witness will not go unpunished, And he who speaks lies shall perish. 19:28 A [h]disreputable witness scorns justice, And the mouth of the wicked devours iniquity.

4.7.1.3.5. 20:10 Diverse weights and diverse measures, They are both alike, an abomination to the Lord. 20:17 Bread gained by deceit is sweet to a man, But afterward his mouth will be filled with gravel 20:23 Diverse weights are an abomination to the Lord, And dishonest scales are not good.

4.7.1.3.6. 25: 18 A man who bears false witness against his neighbor Is like a club, a sword, and a sharp arrow.

4.7.1.3.7. 26:28 A lying tongue hates those who are crushed by it, And a flattering mouth works ruin.

4.7.1.3.8. 13:15 Good understanding [a]gains favor, But the way of the unfaithful is hard. 17 A wicked messenger falls into trouble, But a faithful ambassador brings health.

4.7.1.3.9. 25:19 Confidence in an unfaithful man in time of trouble Is like a bad tooth and a foot out of joint.

4.7.1.3.10. 9 He who walks with integrity walks securely, But he who perverts his ways will become known.

4.7.1.3.11. 11:3 The integrity of the upright will guide them, But the perversity of the unfaithful will destroy them.

4.7.1.3.12. 12:17 He who speaks truth declares righteousness, But a false witness, deceit.

4.7.1.3.13. 14:5 A faithful witness does not lie, But a false witness will utter lies.

4.7.1.3.14. 14:14; 14:25

4.7.1.3.15. 16:11 Honest weights and scales are the Lord’s; All the weights in the bag are His [e]work.

4.7.1.3.16. 25:13 Like the cold of snow in time of harvest Is a faithful messenger to those who send him, For he refreshes the soul of his masters.

4.8. DILIGENCE

4.8.1. DILIGENCE LEADS TO EXCELLENCE

4.8.1.1. Summary: - In all of Proverbs, there are many gifts we are told to pursue. Diligence, however, is called our precious possession. - With diligence, we are promised to rule, to be satisfied, to have plenty, and to have success - With diligence we can achieve excellence, and with excellence, we will stand before kings - With diligence, you will gain a reputation, one of the highest gifts a man can obtain. - One of the worst curses comes to those who wander from their path, and fail to be diligent: he will rest in the assembly of the dead.

4.8.1.2. Key Verses

4.8.1.2.1. 12:27 The lazy man does not roast what he took in hunting, But diligence is man’s precious possession.

4.8.1.2.2. 12:11 He who [c]tills his land will be satisfied with bread, But he who follows [d]frivolity is devoid of [e]understanding. 24 The hand of the diligent will rule, But the lazy man will be put to forced labor.

4.8.1.2.3. 21:5 The plans of the diligent lead surely to plenty, But those of everyone who is hasty, surely to poverty.

4.8.1.2.4. 22:29 Do you see a man who [h]excels in his work? He will stand before kings; He will not stand before unknown men.

4.8.1.2.5. 28:19 He who tills his land will have plenty of bread, But he who follows frivolity will have poverty enough! 28:20 A faithful man will abound with blessings, But he who hastens to be rich will not go unpunished.

4.8.1.2.6. 10:4-5 4 He who has a slack hand becomes poor, But the hand of the diligent makes rich. 5 He who gathers in summer is a wise son; He who sleeps in harvest is a son who causes shame.

4.8.1.2.7. 22:1 A good name is to be chosen rather than great riches, Loving favor rather than silver and gold.

4.8.1.3. Supporting Verses

4.8.1.3.1. 13:19 A desire accomplished is sweet to the soul, But it is an abomination to fools to depart from evil.

4.8.1.3.2. 16:26 The person who labors, labors for himself, For his hungry mouth drives him on.

4.8.1.3.3. 17:2 A wise servant will rule over a son who causes shame, And will share an inheritance among the brothers.

4.8.1.3.4. 25:15 by long forbearance…

4.8.1.3.5. 24:27 Prepare your outside work, Make it fit for yourself in the field; And afterward build your house.

4.8.1.3.6. 27:18 Whoever [d]keeps the fig tree will eat its fruit; So he who waits on his master will be honored.

4.8.1.3.7. 27:23 Be diligent to know the state of your flocks, And attend to your herds; 24 For riches are not forever, Nor does a crown endure to all generations. 25 When the hay is removed, and the tender grass shows itself, And the herbs of the mountains are gathered in, 26 The lambs will provide your clothing, And the goats the price of a field; 27 You shall have enough goats’ milk for your food, For the food of your household, And the nourishment of your maidservants.

4.8.1.3.8. 27:21 The refining pot is for silver and the furnace for gold, And a man is valued by what others say of him.

4.8.2. Laziness

4.8.2.1. Summary: - Laziness is much worse that we may at first consider. The lazy person is killed by something surprising. He is killed by his own desires. - This extends into areas beyond our physical life. Is our field overgrown with thorns, is our wall broken down? - Are we turning on our bed while a lion is roaming our neighborhood? - Here is the curse for laziness: So shall your poverty come like a prowler, and it will even be armed!

4.8.2.2. Key Verses

4.8.2.2.1. 21:25 The desire of the lazy man kills him, For his hands refuse to labor. 26 He covets greedily all day long, But the righteous gives and does not spare.

4.8.2.2.2. 15:19 The way of the lazy man is like a hedge of thorns, But the way of the upright is a highway.

4.8.2.2.3. 18:9 He who is slothful in his work Is a brother to him who is a great destroyer.

4.8.2.2.4. 20:4 The lazy man will not plow because of winter; He will beg during harvest and have nothing. 20:13 Do not love sleep, lest you come to poverty; Open your eyes, and you will be satisfied with bread.

4.8.2.2.5. 22:13 The lazy man says, “There is a lion outside! I shall be slain in the streets!”

4.8.2.2.6. 24:0 I went by the field of the lazy man, And by the vineyard of the man devoid of understanding; 31 And there it was, all overgrown with thorns; Its surface was covered with nettles; Its stone wall was broken down. 32 When I saw it, I considered it well; I looked on it and received instruction: 33 A little sleep, a little slumber, A little folding of the hands to rest; 34 So shall your poverty come like [f]a prowler, And your need like [g]an armed man.

4.8.2.2.7. 21:16 A man who wanders from the way of understanding Will rest in the assembly of the dead.

4.8.2.3. Supporting Verses

4.8.2.3.1. 6:6-11 “Go the ant, you sluggard…"

4.8.2.3.2. 10:26 As vinegar to the teeth and smoke to the eyes, So is the lazy man to those who send him.

4.8.2.3.3. 19:24 A lazy man buries his hand in the [g]bowl, And will not so much as bring it to his mouth again.

4.8.2.3.4. 26:13 The lazy man says, “There is a lion in the road! A fierce lion is in the [b]streets!” 14 As a door turns on its hinges, So does the lazy man on his bed. 15 The lazy man buries his hand in the [c]bowl; It wearies him to bring it back to his mouth. 16 The lazy man is wiser in his own eyes Than seven men who can answer sensibly.

4.8.2.3.5. 27:8 Like a bird that wanders from its nest Is a man who wanders from his place.

4.9. GODLY GAIN

4.9.1. Summary: - Proverbs commends us to gain through godly means, and honor God with our gain - The curse and the trap to avoid, however, is pursuing gain through ungodly means or to trust in those riches rather than God - This is greed, and it always ends in poverty and destruction. - Wealth gained by any form of dishonesty is all cursed by God. That person will end in shame and poverty. - Another form of greed is to be hasty, desiring the fruits of labors before we have earned them - Oppressing others, especially the poor, will bring some of God’s worst judgments upon you. - Perhaps the more surprising curse is that anyone who hides their eyes from the poor, will have many curses! - Yet the one who has pity on the poor is actually lending those gifts right to the Lord!

4.9.2. Key Verses

4.9.2.1. Greed

4.9.2.1.1. 28:22 A man with an evil eye hastens after riches, And does not consider that poverty will come upon him.

4.9.2.1.2. 21:6 Getting treasures by a lying tongue Is the fleeting fantasy of those who seek death.

4.9.2.1.3. Takes away the life of its owners

4.9.2.1.4. 15:27 He who is greedy for gain troubles his own house, But he who hates bribes will live.

4.9.2.1.5. 28:8 One who increases his possessions by usury and extortion Gathers it for him who will pity the poor.

4.9.2.2. God’s Blessings

4.9.2.2.1. 10: 22 The blessing of the Lord makes one rich, And He adds no sorrow with it.

4.9.2.3. Giving

4.9.2.3.1. 9 Honor the Lord with your possessions, And with the firstfruits of all your increase; 10 So your barns will be filled with plenty, And your vats will overflow with new wine

4.9.2.3.2. 21:13 Whoever shuts his ears to the cry of the poor Will also cry himself and not be heard.

4.9.2.3.3. 25:14 Whoever falsely boasts of giving Is like clouds and wind without rain.

4.9.2.3.4. 28:27 He who gives to the poor will not lack, But he who hides his eyes will have many curses.

4.9.2.3.5. 11:25 The generous soul will be made rich, And he who waters will also be watered himself.

4.9.2.3.6. 14:21; 14:31; 19:6; 19:17; 21:13; 28:27 “He who gives to the poor will not lack, but he who hides his eyes will have many curses.”

4.9.2.3.7. 22:9 9 He who has a generous eye will be blessed, For he gives of his bread to the poor.

4.9.2.3.8. 19:17 He who has pity on the poor lends to the Lord, And He will pay back what he has given.

4.9.2.3.9. 13:7 There is one who makes himself rich, yet has nothing; And one who makes himself poor, yet has great riches.

4.9.2.4. God’s Gifts

4.9.2.4.1. 18: 16 A man’s gift makes room for him, And brings him before great men.

4.9.2.4.2. 17:8 A present is a precious stone in the eyes of its possessor; wherever he turns, he prospers.

4.9.2.5. Haste

4.9.2.5.1. 18:13; 19:2; 20:21; 22:8;

4.9.2.5.2. 19:2 Also it is not good for a soul to be without knowledge, And he sins who hastens with his feet.

4.9.2.5.3. 20:21 An inheritance gained hastily at the beginning will not be blessed at the end.

4.9.2.5.4. 20:25 It is a snare for a man to devote rashly something as holy, And afterward to reconsider his vows.

4.9.2.5.5. 25:8 Do not go hastily to court; For what will you do in the end, When your neighbor has put you to shame? 9 Debate your case with your neighbor, And do not disclose the secret to another; 10 Lest he who hears it expose your shame, And your reputation be ruined.

4.9.3. Supporting Verses

4.9.3.1. 20:14 “It is [c]good for nothing,” cries the buyer; But when he has gone his way, then he boasts.

4.9.3.2. 27:20 Hell and Destruction are never full; So the eyes of man are never satisfied.

4.9.3.2.1. Greed has some terrible sisters!

4.9.3.3. 25:27 It is not good to eat much honey; So to seek one’s own glory is not glory.

4.9.3.4. Failing to give what is owed

4.9.3.5. 23:23 When you sit down to eat with a ruler, Consider carefully what is before you; 2 And put a knife to your throat If you are a man given to appetite. 3 Do not desire his delicacies, For they are deceptive food. 4 Do not overwork to be rich; Because of your own understanding, cease! 5 [a]Will you set your eyes on that which is not? For riches certainly make themselves wings; They fly away like an eagle toward heaven. 6 Do not eat the bread of a[b] miser, Nor desire his delicacies; 7 For as he thinks in his heart, so is he. “Eat and drink!” he says to you, But his heart is not with you. 8 The morsel you have eaten, you will vomit up, And waste your pleasant words.

4.9.3.6. 13:22

4.9.3.7. 14:23

4.9.3.8. 17:5 He who mocks the poor reproaches his Maker; He who is glad at calamity will not go unpunished.

4.9.3.9. 22:16 He who oppresses the poor to increase his riches, And he who gives to the rich, will surely come to poverty. 22:22 Do not rob the poor because he is poor, Nor oppress the afflicted at the gate; 22: 23 For the Lord will plead their cause, And plunder the soul of those who plunder them. 22: 28 Do not remove the ancient landmark Which your fathers have set.

4.9.3.9.1. God Himself will plunder your soul for committing this crime!

4.9.3.10. 23:10 Do not remove the ancient landmark, Nor enter the fields of the fatherless; 22:11 For their Redeemer is mighty; He will plead their cause against you.

4.9.3.11. 28:3 3 A poor man who oppresses the poor Is like a driving rain [a]which leaves no food.

4.9.3.11.1. This is the true state of every communist state in history

4.9.3.12. 29:7 The righteous considers the cause of the poor, But the wicked does not understand such knowledge.

4.9.3.13. 11:24 There is one who scatters, yet increases more; And there is one who withholds more than is right, But it leads to poverty. 11:25 The generous soul will be made rich, And he who waters will also be watered himself. 11:26 The people will curse him who withholds grain, But blessing will be on the head of him who sells it.

4.9.3.14. 22:7 The rich rules over the poor, And the borrower is servant to the lender.

4.9.3.14.1. Untitled

4.9.3.15. 10:15 The rich man’s wealth is his strong city; The destruction of the poor is their poverty.

4.9.3.16. 19:4 Wealth makes many friends, But the poor is separated from his friend. 6 Many entreat the favor of the nobility, And every man is a friend to one who gives gifts. 7 All the brothers of the poor hate him; How much more do his friends go far from him! He may pursue them with words, yet they [a]abandon him.

4.10. WINE

4.10.1. Summary: - Proverbs warns us from wine and drink and gluttony, and even from befriending those who are given to wine, drink or gluttony - Those who are led astray by drink are “not wise,” they will come to poverty, rags, woe, sorrow, contentions, complaints, and wounds! - Drink bites like a viper in the end, and strong drink transforms people into brawlers! - However, this truth is all we need really to know: “Wine is not for kings!” If you would be a king and priest of God, it is not for you! - There is one verse that does seem to give us understanding for the poor, miserable and destitute. Give them drink to forget their misery. - While we know better ways, we can at least have compassion for those who are lost in misery, if they seek refuge in a bottle. - Those lost in misery do not need sobriety, they need a salvation that rescues their heart, mind and soul. Then, sobriety will follow naturally.

4.10.2. Key Verses

4.10.2.1. 20:1? Wine is a mocker, Strong drink is a brawler, And whoever is led astray by it is not wise.

4.10.2.2. 21:17 He who loves pleasure will be a poor man; He who loves wine and oil will not be rich.

4.10.2.3. 23:19 Hear, my son, and be wise; And guide your heart in the way. 23:20 Do not mix with winebibbers, Or with gluttonous eaters of meat; 23:21 For the drunkard and the glutton will come to poverty, And drowsiness will clothe a man with rags. 23:29 Who has woe? Who has sorrow? Who has contentions? Who has complaints? Who has wounds without cause? Who has redness of eyes? 30 Those who linger long at the wine, Those who go in search of mixed wine.

4.10.2.4. 31:4 It is not for kings, O Lemuel, It is not for kings to drink wine, Nor for princes intoxicating drink; 5 Lest they drink and forget the law, And pervert the justice of all [a]the afflicted.

4.10.3. Supporting Verses

4.10.3.1. 23:31 Do not look on the wine when it is red, When it sparkles in the cup, When it [g]swirls around smoothly; 32 At the last it bites like a serpent, And stings like a viper. 33 Your eyes will see strange things, And your heart will utter perverse things. 34 Yes, you will be like one who lies down in the [h]midst of the sea, Or like one who lies at the top of the mast, saying: 35 “They have struck me, but I was not hurt; They have beaten me, but I did not feel it. When shall I awake, that I may seek another drink?”

4.10.3.2. 31:6 Give strong drink to him who is perishing, And wine to those who are bitter of heart. 7 Let him drink and forget his poverty, And remember his misery no more.