You are focusing on the present
Law of State Transference - She will become amused or curious
Bring her into your frame
What She is Wearing
How She Looks
What's going on at the event
What is she celebrating?
Where is she from?
Where does she go to school? Study?
Where does she work?
Who is she here with?
Demonstrate your attraction for her
"I thought you were really pretty..."
"Where is your boyfriend?"
Start making statements and assumptions about her
She will correct you if your assumptions are wrong
Exaggerate your assumptions
Commanding tonality as opposed to questioning tonality
Asking her to remember your name
Feigning disbelief at her statements