1. Perfect Personality
1.1. Grandmother says to always be ladylike
1.1.1. Never raise your voice
1.1.2. Always be polite
1.2. Woman should be in touch with their emotions
1.2.1. Too tough is masculine
1.2.2. Too emotional is annoying and high maintenance
1.3. Boyfriend likes funny and outgoing woman
1.3.1. He likes a woman who can "hang with the guys" and not easily offended
1.3.2. Like a feminine woman and thinks I am cute when I act girly
1.4. Being a good conversationalist is an important skill
1.4.1. Talking too much is irritating
2. Perfect Sexuality
2.1. Media says being sexy is cool
2.1.1. If you are too sexy you are shamed and called a slut
2.2. Men like woman who are "untouched" or innocent
2.2.1. Having sex with too many people is a flaw
2.2.2. Having too little experience or being a virgin is embarrassing
3. Perfect Body
3.1. Guy friends say they like curves
3.1.1. They like girls who are strong
3.1.2. Don't want t a girl with too much muscle
3.2. Media displays skinny as ideal
4. Perfect Intelligence
4.1. My parents always encourage me to get the best job I can
4.1.1. I am rewarded when I show motivation
4.2. According to most men, being too smart is threatening and ultimately unattractive
4.2.1. Men don't like woman with more power or a better than them
4.2.2. My guy friends make fun of girls who act unintelligent and ditsy
5. Perfect Wardrobe
5.1. My mother enforced no low cut shirt and no short skirts
5.2. Grandmother says woman wear dresses
5.2.1. I always get complimented when I wear make up and a dress because it is what she thinks is feminine is beautiful