Your best friend decides to move lunch tables without inviting you.

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Your best friend decides to move lunch tables without inviting you. by Mind Map: Your best friend decides to move lunch tables without inviting you.

1. Explore the Alternatives 1. Ask them what's wrong? 2. Ignore them 3. Act normal 4. Talk to them about it and tell them how you feel. 5. Get a trustworthy involved if it gets worse.

1.1. Consider the Consequences 1. They will tell you and you may be able to figure it out. 2. It might get awkward when you run into them. 3. Be friends but it could cause the relationship to die out. 4. If they react how they should, they will apologize and things could go back to normal, or they could think your emotional and weak. 5. They may think you are a tattletale or they may back off because there is an adult involved.

1.1.1. Identify Your Values In the long term you may want to be friends and be normal around each other. As of now, you may want to remain civil because they may not be the best friend to have.

1.1.1.1. Decide and Act The best option is to confront them nicely and make sure there is no tension so in the future, they will not cause any more problems. The last thing you want is tension and drama between you and your friend. You can be civil and frieds but being best friends is probably not the best option.

1.1.1.1.1. Evaluate the Results If your friend decides to agree to be civil and not best friends and that is what you want, then act normal and be normal, not fake, around each other. If they are rude and say they don't want to be friends then still be kind and treat them the way you want to be treated.