Define the Problem Your not allowed to sneak out to parties because of your parents rule and cur...

1. Explore the Alternatives - You could either fall for the peer pressure from your bf/gf and go to the party with him/her. Or you could stand up to your bf/gf and tell them you dont feel comfortable disobeying your parents rules - Either you could go to the party and pass your curfew and get in trouble with your parents or you could not go to the party, stay home and rest and please your parents

1.1. Consider the Consequences -A negative consequence could be that your parents get extermly angry with you and ground you for the whole week, were you are not allowed to go to party -Or you could go to the party have a good time and the next day wake up really tired and possibly if you drank to much, you would have a hangover.

1.1.1. Identify Your Values - You value your parents rules and desicons -However you also value your boyfriend and pleasing him -You also value your rest -You also value having a good time

1.1.1.1. Decide and Act The best decision in this situation is to kindly delcine your bf.gf's offer of sneaking to a party and in return you respect your parents rules and wake up the next day fullly rested. However, though you may be missing out on 'the party of the year' you could easily wait till the weekend and go to a party with your parents permission. That way you have fun and you don't disobey your parents. Overall, its a win-win situation.

1.1.1.1.1. Evaluate the Results -As a result of declining the offer you had a full sleep and now are rested and ready for a energetic day. -Another result of your decision is that now your parents are NOT angry or disappointed with you - However, your bf/gf is a little bit mad at you for declining his/her offer