1. D
1.1. Define the Problem
1.1.1. She would act strange when another girl, X, came to hangout with us. She would treat me differently when 'X' was around.
1.1.2. I thought that if I told her the way I felt, she would understand and try and change the way she was acting.
1.1.2.1. Instead she twisted my words imediatley and told 'X' that I hated 'X'.
2. E
2.1. Explore the Alternatives
2.1.1. Continue to hang out with her while 'X' was under the impression that I hated her.
2.1.2. Stop talking to both of them and hang out with other people or be alone.
3. C
3.1. Consider the Consequences
3.1.1. I would have to act like I wasn't even effected by her lying about what I said.
3.1.1.1. I wouldn't enjoy being around her anymore.
3.1.2. Be on my own. Become a loner. Realize that there were people out there that would treat me better.
3.1.2.1. I would miss someone being my friend deeply and the bond we shared.
4. I
4.1. Identify Values
4.1.1. I deserve a better friendship.
4.1.2. I don't feel comfortable being around someone who would lie on me.
4.1.3. I would rather eat lunch alone or with better friends than with someone I can not trust.
4.1.4. Our relationship would drag on stressfully
5. D
5.1. Decide and act
5.1.1. I decided to go with the latter and stop being friends with her.
6. E
6.1. Evaluate the Results
6.1.1. Unfortunately, I never got to explain to 'X' my true words but she reacted in such a poisonous way I didn't even try to. My now EX friend ignores the whole thing and acts as if it never happened. Sadly, I miss hanging out with her, but a truthful relationship is more important to me. I now eat and do many things on my lonesome but ocassionally I hangout with people that give me a better time and more enjoyment.
6.1.2. I learned that I can't control the way people act and if they really wanted to be in my life they would try.
6.1.3. If I could do it all over again, I would have told 'X' how I really said it immediately after I found out my EX friend twisted my words. I wouldn't want me and 'X's' relationship to end like it did.