DEFINE THE PROBLEM: YOUR FREIND/S ASK YOU TO SNEAK OUT TO GO TO A PARTY

1. EXPLORE THE ALTERNATIVES: (1) SNEAK OUT TO ATTEND THE PARTY (2) REJECT THE THOUGHT OF SNEAKING OUT AND NOT ATTENDING (3) CONFRONT TO AN ADULT ABOUT THE SITUATION OF SNEAKING OUT.

2. CONSIDER THE CONSEQUENCES: (1) WHEN ACTION HAS BEEN FOUND OUT, THE CONSEQUENCES ARE SEVERE. SUCH AS LOOSING TRUST FROM SOCIAL WELLNESS. NEGATIVITY (2) NO SEVERE CONSEQUENCES ARE BEING CAUSED HOWEVER FRIENDS MIGHT HAVE DIFFERENT INTERPRETATIONS RESULTING ISSUES SUCH AS FRIENDSHIP LOSS. POSITIVITY. (3) CORRECT CHOICE, HOWEVER WILL LOOSE SOCIAL WELLNESS BUT HAVING A TOUGH MENTAL WELLNESS. POSITIVITY.

3. DECIDES AND ASKS: ONE OF MY FAMILY'S STRONGEST VALUES IS TRUST AND HONESTY. THEREFORE, MOST LIKELY 2ND CHOICE / 3RD CHOICE. HOWEVER, 3RD CHOICE IS NOT 'most' SUITABLE AS I WOULD NOT TURN AGAIN MY FRIENDS, EVEN THOUGH CONSIDERING MY OWN VALUES I WOULD ALSO CONSIDER SOCIAL WELLNESS. I WOULD MAINTAIN THE CURRENT FRIENDSHIPS AND CONTINUE TO KEEP THE CONSTANT POSITIVE SPIRITUAL WELLNESS OF BEING HAPPY AND BRIGHT INSTEAD OF HAVING A NEGATIVE SPIRITUAL WELLNESS OF SNEAKING OUT. I BELIEVE THAT IT IS CORRECT OF BEING TRUTHFUL TO MYSELF ABOUT MY INTERPRETATIONS AND SHOULD NOT SNEAK OUT. PLAN (2)-- I would rather refuses/ rejects the idea from finding some excuses such as tuition etc. It will be able to cover up, and making the correct choice. After the occurrence continue with the current friendship as if nothing has happened.

4. IDENTIFIES YOUR VALUES: ONE OF MY FAMILY'S STRONGEST VALUES IS TRUST AND HONESTY. WE ARE A MULTI-CULTURAL FAMILY AS WE HAVE RELATIVES ACROSS THE WORLD. (SUCH AS WE ARE CURRENTLY IN SINGAPORE, THERE ARE FAMILIES IN SHANGHAI U.S., U.K. ETC.) SOME OF MY LONG-TERM GOALS INCLUDES BEING ABLE TO PARTICIPATE IN SERVICE EVENTS. (WHICH INCLUDES RUNS SUCH AS THE COLOUR RUN ANNUALLY) ANOTHER LONG-TERM GOAL IS TO STAY FIT THROUGH GOLF AND ALSO CONTINUING TO TO JUMP ROAL (1200/DAY) AND ADDING ONTO THE AMOUNT DAILY. I HAVE SELF RESPECT AND CONFIDENCE TO SUPPORT MYSELF TO OVERCOME OBSTACLES. MY FAMILY HAS GREAT HEALTH CONDITIONS, WE ALL SHARE A COMMON INTEREST IN GOLF :) HOWEVER, I WOULD PLAY MORE FREQUENTLY WITH MY DAD DURING WEEKDAYS AND WEEKENDS.

5. EVALUATE THE RESULTS: THE DECISION/ RESULTS OF THE SITUATION IS TO NOT SNEAK OUT NOR REPORT YOUR FRIENDS. IT WILL AFFECT MYSELF AS I HAVE MADE THE CHOICE OF REJECTING THE OPPORTUNITY. IT MIGHT HAVE AN AFFECT TOWARDS MY FRIENDS, HOWEVER THE IMPACT IS NOT LARGE, SINCE THE DELIVERY WAS NOT DIRECT. I HAVE LEARNT THAT HONESTY IS PRIORITISED AND ESPECIALLY WITH FAMILY. ADDITIONALLY, IT IS A BAD BEHAVIOUR TO SNEAK OUT TO PARTY. IN MY OPINION, IF I WERE TO HAVE THE CHOICE TO DO THIS AGAIN I WOULD RECONSIDER ON WHETHER TO REPORT ON THE FRIENDS OR NOT SINCE THEY HAVE PLANNED TO STEALTHILY SNEAK OUT TO A PARTY. THIS WILL GIVE THEM AN AFFECT AND TO TURN OVER A NEW LEAF.