1. why marriage
1.1. they did because they loved
1.2. not hetrosexualise
1.3. not addopt rules
1.4. cultural gay
1.5. believe in marriage
1.6. on record
1.7. change marriage forever
1.7.1. change society
1.8. insist on same rights
2. im gay not ducth but love you very much
3. 1981 came out to friends
4. 1983 told parents
4.1. never spoke to his mother for over 20 years
4.2. talk with dad: are you a boy or a girl
4.2.1. Dad: do you give him flowers or does he give you flowers
4.2.2. i: What do you mean?
4.2.3. dad: Who gives the other 'flowers'
4.2.4. i: we both do that
4.3. mother sent newclippings on aids
5. 1985 deported to Brittain
6. 1986 fell in love in London
6.1. we made out in a cemetery
7. 1987 informal mariage
8. About
8.1. ... this map
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8.2. ...the author
8.2.1. Gary Carter
8.2.1.1. Fremantlemedia.com
8.2.1.2. "“Oh, that was just a pitch.”"
8.2.1.3. “All of these media [...] cannot give you a sense of who I really am.”"
8.3. ...this talk
8.3.1. Themes
8.3.2. Related talks
8.3.3. Reactions
8.3.3.1. Gary Carter of @FremantleMedia about being Gay "It is the significant social and political drama of the century." #TEDxAms
8.3.3.2. What an interesting speech from Gary Carter #tedxams
8.3.3.3. #TEDxAms "I m coming out to you" ! Beautifull .
8.3.3.4. Wow, powerful talk at #TEDxAms about homosexuality
8.3.3.5. "We are Gay, we are Dutch and we like it very much"""
8.3.3.6. Gary Carter has a colorful view on the marriage at #TEDxAms http://twitpic.com/bhr1xb
8.3.3.7. Gary Carter talks powerfully, honestly and humorously about being gay & getting married. We need more of this in the public sphere. #TEDxAms
9. I...
9.1. British Nationality
9.2. Christened in Chuch of England
9.3. Born in South Africa
9.4. Gay
9.4.1. Is in direct correlation to the others
10. at the age of 4
10.1. had a sleepover at a friends house
10.1.1. Saw his dad shirtless
10.1.2. struck me
10.2. in an unkown way
10.2.1. i knew i was 'other'
10.3. idols of masculinity
10.3.1. no role models available for gay people
11. in 1977
11.1. only then he found someone gay
11.1.1. had a wife & kids
11.2. 1991 he met a lesbian woman
12. afrikaans national project
12.1. faith in return for power
12.2. christelijke nationale onderwijs
13. being homesexual was illegal
13.1. certainly in South Africa
14. 1979
14.1. lost verginity in Cape Town
15. "I am homosexual but Gay is what i do"
15.1. told to be told gay
15.2. biology aside gender is a performance
16. TImeline
16.1. 1987
16.1.1. Protest
16.1.1.1. we are gay we are ducth and we like it very much
16.2. 1977
16.2.1. lets birth place
16.3. 1988
16.4. 1989
16.5. 2001
16.5.1. article 3.0 marriage van be contracted be 2 people different/ or same gender
16.5.2. first country world wide
16.6. 2003
16.6.1. also in brittain
16.7. 2007
16.7.1. legallt married in town hall of amsterdam
16.7.2. mother refused to come, dad came