Seven Habits of Highly Effective People

1. Sharpen the Saw

1.1. Body: Exercise, Nutrition, Rest, Stress management

1.2. Heart: Consistent deposits in EBAs of key relationships

1.3. Mind: Reading, writing, learning, study

1.4. Spirit: Service, Values clarification, Inspirational literature, Meditation, Nature

2. Synergize

2.1. Have a change of heart

2.2. Feel new energy and excitement

2.3. Seek things in a new way

2.4. Feel that the relationship has transformed

3. Seek First to Understand, Then to Be Understood

3.1. Seek first to Understand

3.1.1. Intent : Listen to Understand

3.1.2. Skill: Reflect Feelings and words

3.2. Then to be understood

3.2.1. Listen: Seek to be understood

3.2.2. Skill: State your point of view using "I" messages

4. End up with an idea or a result that is a better than what either of you started wit

5. Be Proactive

5.1. Human Gifts

5.1.1. Self Awareness

5.1.2. Imagination

5.1.3. Conscience

5.1.4. Independent Will

5.2. Not Urgent + Important = Effectiveness

5.3. Reactive is an animal instinct

5.4. Urgent +Important = Necessity

6. Begin With the End in Mind

6.1. Mental Creation First

6.2. Physical Creation Second

7. Put First Things First

7.1. Not Important + Urgent = Distraction

7.2. Not Important + Not Urgent = Waste

7.3. Important + Urgent = Necessity

7.4. Important + Not Urgent = Effectiveness

8. Think Win-Win

8.1. Integrity

8.2. Maturity

8.3. Abundance Mentality