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1. 4. Fear of Failure

1.1. Fear by itself is not bad

2. 5. Playing Small

2.1. 10x Rule

3. 7. Being Reactive

3.1. 7 Habits of highly effective people

4. Your comfort zone

4.1. Feel the fear and do it anyways

4.2. You must give up your comfort zone

4.3. Stop playing safe

5. 1. Your Excuses

5.1. 1.

6. Thinking that You don't have what it takes to be successful

6.1. This is insidious

6.2. This is a cop-out

6.2.1. You are just deceiving yourself

6.3. It's not that you don't have what it takes

6.3.1. It's that you are not working what you have

6.3.2. You are not taking action

6.4. If you can watch this video - you have what it takes

6.5. You don't need more talent or smarts

6.5.1. You can grow yourself

6.6. But what you don't have is the courage to ACT

6.6.1. Courage to try

6.6.2. Courage to fail

6.7. You are just playing scared in life

6.8. You have everything

6.8.1. What is missing is massive, insane, herculean, consistent hard work

6.9. MINDSET

6.9.1. carol dweck

6.9.2. Growth Mindset

6.9.3. Fixed Mindset

7. 1. Blaming your circumstances

7.1. 1. Magic of thinking Big

7.1.1. 1. Napoleon Hill: Attack, I say attack. I make circumstance

8. 8. Waiting for the perfect opportunity

9. 9. Perfectionism

9.1. 1. Its actually just fear that’s masked as perfectionism

9.2. How to be an imperfectionist

10. Count down ideas 10 to 1

10.1. 1 is mental weakness

10.2. 10 is indecision

10.3. Number Audio to modify

10.3.1. 1. The first thing you have to give up

10.3.1.1. Coming up at number 10 is

10.3.2. 2. is good

10.3.3. 3. So the 3rd thing

10.3.3.1. Instead of 3rd - make it the NEXT

10.3.4. 4. Is good

10.3.5. 5. is good

10.3.6. 6. Is good

10.3.7. 7. is good

10.3.8. 8. is good

10.3.9. 9. is good

10.3.10. 10.

10.3.10.1. The most important thing

11. 10. Mental Weakness

11.1. I am not going to mince words here - I am not going to sugarcoat anything

11.2. The reason you are not succeeding is because you are operating like a mental weakling

11.2.1. The obstacles are stopping you!

11.2.2. The pressure is deflating you

11.2.3. The fear is stopping you

11.2.4. You are allowing nervousness to trick you into inaction

11.2.5. The obstacles are overwhelming you

11.3. You are operating like a victim in this world

11.4. Let me ask you this - What is the difference between a candle and a Forest fire?

11.4.1. A candle is blown out in face of a very mild wind

11.4.2. But a Forest fire .... IT is inflamed in face of winds

11.4.2.1. In fact, the stronger the winds, the stronger the fire gets

11.4.3. You have to choose to be a forest fire not a candle

11.4.3.1. Become a forest fire my friend. Become a forest fire

11.5. Grit

11.5.1. Dr Angela Duckworth

11.5.2. Research

11.5.2.1. Westpoint academy

11.5.2.1.1. Elite military academy in the world

11.5.2.1.2. What makes cadets succeed or fail?

11.6. Meditations

11.6.1. Marcus Aurelius: "The impediment to action advances action. What stands in the way becomes the way."

11.6.2. Obstacles are here to help you become stronger

11.6.3. Obstacles are here to help you get ahead

11.6.4. They become the fuel to your fire

11.6.4.1. But you have to WORK

11.6.4.2. Become a forest fire... not a candle

11.7. You are probably wondering - Well how do I become mentally tougher?

11.7.1. It is possible to become mentally indestructible.... there are strategies to do exactly that.

11.7.1.1. You don't have strategies

11.7.1.2. The problem is that .... You don't have the mental tools to become mentally tougher

11.7.1.2.1. Go find them

11.7.1.2.2. Download my 10 Point mental toughness checklist - 10 strategies to handle any life challenge.

12. Books Referred

12.1. Sam Walton

12.2. Elon Musk

12.3. 10x Rule

12.4. Michael Phelps

12.5. Michael Jordan

12.6. Feel the fear

12.7. Resilience

12.8. Grit

12.9. Compound Effect

12.10. Never Eat Alone

12.11. Magic of Thinking Big

12.12. Think and Grow Rich

12.13. Outwitting the Devil Within

12.14. Mindset

12.15. On the shortness of life

12.16. Feeling Good

12.17. Be obsessed or be average

12.18. How to be rich

13. 9. Your present Identity

13.1. Tony Robbins

13.1.1. The most powerful force in human nature is our identity

13.1.2. We stay consistent with our identity

13.1.2.1. Whether that is good or bad is up to you

13.1.3. Our results are always consistent with

13.1.3.1. Who we think we are in that pursuit

13.1.3.1.1. Winner

13.1.3.1.2. Loser

13.1.3.1.3. Millionaire

13.1.3.1.4. Billionaire

13.1.3.1.5. Broke

13.1.4. So whatever it is you want to succeed at

13.1.4.1. what is your identity in that area?

13.1.4.1.1. Do you see yourself as a winner?

13.1.4.1.2. Do you see yourself struggling with it?

13.2. Resilience - Navy Seal Eric Grietens

13.2.1. 99% people are run by feelings

13.2.1.1. Feelings -> Action -> Identity

13.2.2. We must

13.2.2.1. Identity -> Action -> Feelings

13.2.3. We must define who we want to become

13.2.4. That will define the actions for us

13.2.5. That will define our feelings

13.2.6. Ancient greeks

13.2.6.1. Actors used to put on the mask

13.2.6.2. Over time they became that character

13.3. Psycho cybernetics - one of the greatest self help classics by a plastic surgeon

13.3.1. Our self image defines the limits of what we will accomplish in our lives

13.3.2. You may set big goals

13.3.2.1. If your self image does not believe it is possible

13.3.2.2. You will keep failing at it

13.3.3. So it is imperative to change your self image - your identity

13.3.4. Redefine your self identity

13.3.4.1. I am a winner

13.3.4.2. I am successful

13.3.4.3. Act as if

13.3.4.3.1. Feel as if

13.4. Total Recall - Arnold

13.4.1. Don't think about what you need to do

13.4.2. Instead think of who you want to become

13.4.3. And you will figure out what to do as a result of it

13.5. Think and Grow Rich

13.5.1. Acting as if

13.5.2. How would you act if you had already accomplished the goal

13.5.3. Who would you be?

13.5.4. Do that right now

13.5.4.1. Dont wait till the goal is accomplished to be that person. Act as if TODAY

14. 2. Negative People, Cynical people and people who have no ambition

14.1. Jim Rohn

14.1.1. We are the average of the 5 people

14.1.1.1. In every area of life

14.1.1.1.1. Health

14.1.1.1.2. Wealth

14.1.1.1.3. Relationships

14.1.2. Take a hard look

14.2. Compound Effect

14.2.1. Darren Hardy

14.2.2. The subtle effect of influences

14.2.2.1. Initially - too hard to notice

14.2.2.2. Over time - too hard to break those influences

14.3. Never Eat Alone

14.3.1. Learn how to

14.3.1.1. Connect with good people

14.3.1.2. Build networks

14.3.1.3. Inner game and how to implement it.

14.3.2. Towards the end of the video I will give you an ACTION checklist - simple guide you can implement tomorrow.

15. 1. Indecision

15.1. 1. Think and Grow Rich

15.1.1. The biggest cause of failure = Indecision

15.1.2. Decide what you want

15.1.3. GO after it with all you've got

15.1.4. You don't need the perfect plan

15.1.4.1. But you do need to decide

15.1.4.2. Plans will evolve over time

15.1.5. The key to success is

15.1.5.1. Definiteness of purpose

15.1.5.1.1. What you want

15.1.5.2. Not definiteness of plans

15.1.6. Successful people

15.1.6.1. Reach decisions quickly

15.1.6.2. Change them slowly

15.2. 2. Outwitting the Devil Within

15.2.1. The biggest reason why people surrender to the devil within

15.2.1.1. DRIFTING

15.2.1.2. They find no success

15.2.2. Drifting

15.2.2.1. No aims

15.2.2.2. No specific goals

15.2.2.3. Inability to make decisions on the course of life you desire

16. 6. Notion that SUCCESS will be easy for you because you have talent, skills, smarts or intelligence

16.1. Undefeated Mind

16.1.1. Dr Alex Lickerman

16.1.2. Want to accomplish great things?

16.1.3. Tell yourself

16.1.3.1. It is going to be 10x harder

16.1.3.2. Than what you think it is going to be

16.2. Going through hardships is part of the journey - no matter how talented you are

16.2.1. Elon Musk

16.2.1.1. It has not been an easy journey at all

16.2.1.2. He was very close to bankruptcy in 2008

16.2.1.2.1. Almost about to loose Tesla and Space X

16.2.2. Michael Jordan

16.2.2.1. Greatest basketball player ever

16.2.2.2. "I can't accept not trying"

16.2.2.3. Was cut from his high school basketball team

16.3. Mindset

16.3.1. Dr Carol Dweck

16.3.2. Fixed Mindset

16.3.2.1. You can accomplish something because you have talent or skills in that area

16.3.2.2. You don't need to work hard

16.3.2.3. Effort is bad - because you are gifted

16.3.3. Growth Mindset

16.3.3.1. No matter how much talent or skill I have - I will have to work hard and constantly grow myself.

16.3.3.2. That is the path to success

16.3.3.3. Effort is good

16.3.4. Fixed

16.3.4.1. It will be easy or

16.3.4.1.1. I should do something else

16.3.5. Growth

16.3.5.1. It will be hard

16.3.5.1.1. But I can handle it

16.3.5.1.2. I can grow and get better

16.4. Give up the notion that it will be easy

16.4.1. Embrace the idea that it will be HARD work

16.4.2. It will be very tough

16.4.3. It will be gut wrenching

16.4.4. It will take more hard work than you ever imagined

16.5. Paradox

16.5.1. Once you know it is going to be HARD

16.5.1.1. It becomes easy

16.5.2. Because once you accept that

16.5.2.1. You don't fight the struggle

16.5.2.2. You keep going

16.5.2.3. You go through the tough times

16.5.2.4. Because you expect them

16.6. Tony Robbins Seminar

16.6.1. The biggest problem you have is that you think you should not have problems

16.6.2. The size of your life is directly proportional to the size of the problems you can handle in life.

17. 3. Amateur Ways

17.1. Turning Pro

17.1.1. Want greatness?

17.1.1.1. Give up your amateur ways

17.1.1.2. Become a PRO

17.1.2. Difference between Amateur and Pro

17.1.2.1. Their Habits

17.1.2.2. Amateurs =

17.1.2.2.1. amateur habits

17.1.2.3. Pros=

17.1.2.3.1. Pro Habits

17.1.3. What do Pros do?

17.1.3.1. No matter what is happening, they put in the hard work. They do what is necessary

17.1.4. You are hurt?

17.1.4.1. You still play

17.1.5. You are tired?

17.1.5.1. You play

17.1.6. You are not ready

17.1.6.1. You play

17.2. Elon Musk Biography

17.2.1. I work 100+ hours a week

17.2.2. If you work 50 hours a week, I will accomplish in 1 yr what you will in 2 years.

17.2.3. By sheer hard work, I will beat you

17.2.4. When he started his first startup

17.2.4.1. Didnt even rent an apartment

17.2.4.2. Used to sleep under his desk at office

17.2.4.3. Worked hard all day

17.3. Sam Walton

17.3.1. Made in America

17.3.2. Even after he was a billionaire

17.3.2.1. 16 hours a day, 7 days a week

17.3.2.2. Used to show up to work at 2:30 AM on Saturday mornings

17.4. Michael Phelps

17.4.1. Biography - "No Limits - The Will to succeed"

17.4.2. 1998-203

17.4.2.1. 5 years

17.4.2.1.1. Practiced every single day

17.4.2.2. Only 3 days off from practice

17.4.2.3. Prom

17.4.2.4. Snowstorm

17.4.2.5. Wisdom Tooth removal

17.5. Ask yourself

17.5.1. How pro are you?

17.5.2. How pro are your Work habits?

17.5.3. How pro are your habits in the area you want to succeed in?

18. 4. Low Standards

18.1. Tony Robbins

18.1.1. If you want to succeed, raise your standards.

18.1.2. We all meet our standards

18.1.2.1. Whether High or LOW

18.1.3. In every area of life

18.1.3.1. Health

18.1.3.2. Wealth

18.1.3.3. Relationships

18.1.4. Low standard

18.1.4.1. Mediocrity

18.2. 3. When we raise our standards, when we raise the bar for ourselves, we always find the way to meet that bar.

18.2.1. 4. But until we raise our standards we continue to suffer in mediocrity

18.3. Think and Grow Rich

18.3.1. Burn the boats

18.3.2. Raise your standards to the point that you have basically said.... I will never accept that lower standard.

18.4. 1. 10x Rule

18.4.1. You must think 10x bigger

18.4.2. Not just 2x or 3x

18.4.2.1. But 10x bigger

18.4.3. 10x goals

18.4.3.1. Small goals do not inspire

18.4.3.1.1. Small goals do not get us to want to take massive action

18.4.3.2. 10x problems

18.4.3.2.1. 10x challenges

18.5. Magic of Thinking Big

18.5.1. Think Bigger every day

18.5.2. The greatest human weakness is selling oneself short

18.5.3. The price tag the world puts on us is the same as what we put on ourselves

18.5.4. Your standards are like a thermostat for your achievement

18.5.4.1. If your standards are low

18.5.4.1.1. You get them

18.5.4.2. If your standards are high

18.5.4.2.1. You get them

18.5.5. Size of your life = size of your thinking

18.5.5.1. Think big goals

18.5.5.1.1. Win big

18.5.5.2. Think small goals

18.5.5.2.1. Win small

18.5.5.3. Choice is yours

18.5.5.4. Big thinking and big plans are not any more difficult than small thinking and small plans. In fact they can actually be easier because you can enroll the power of others

18.6. Becoming Unreasonable in life

18.6.1. Demand it from life

19. 7. Slavery to your feelings

19.1. 99% of people are slaves to their feelings

19.1.1. They dont harness the power of their feelings and emotions

19.1.2. Instead they allow their feelings to run their lives

19.2. You have to stop being a slave to your feelings

19.2.1. You are fearful

19.2.2. You feel tired?

19.2.3. You feel overwhelmed

19.2.4. You feel scared, nervous, anxious?

19.3. You can do that

19.4. You don't become numb to your feelings

19.4.1. You learn how to harness the power of your feelings to your advantage.

19.4.2. Good or bad

19.4.2.1. You can harness the power inherent in those feelings to your advantage

19.5. 7 Habits of highly effective people

19.5.1. Habit #1 - To be proactive

19.5.1.1. To act in alignment with our values - not our feelings

19.5.1.2. Motivation is a feeling

19.5.1.2.1. Dont depend on it

19.5.1.3. Fear is a feeling

19.5.1.3.1. Don't surrender to it

19.5.1.4. Anxiety and nervousness

19.5.1.4.1. Don't let them stop you

19.5.1.5. Not feeling like working hard

19.5.1.5.1. Just a feeling

19.5.2. Learn to ACT - no matter how you feel

19.6. Feeling Good - Dr Burns

19.6.1. Cognitive behavioral therapy

19.6.2. No matter how you are feeling

19.6.2.1. They all started with a thought

19.6.2.2. Change your thoughts and you can change your feelings

19.6.2.3. Change what you are thinking

19.7. Feel the fear and do it anyways

19.7.1. You may feel fear

19.7.2. Buy you must take action any ways

19.7.3. You feel it.... you don't surrender to it

19.7.4. Courage is not the absence of fear

19.7.5. It is "Taking ACTION" in face of fear

19.8. A lot of people wait around for that feeling of motivation or inspiration

19.8.1. 1. A really bad strategy for success.

19.8.1.1. Motivation never falls in your lap

19.8.2. 2. Progress is the best motivator

19.8.2.1. 3. Action is the best way to create progress

19.8.2.2. Action creates confidence

19.8.3. Motivation is not a strategy

19.8.3.1. It is a feeling

19.8.3.2. We can not be at the mercy of our feelings

19.8.4. We must act no matter how we feel

20. 5.Dreaming, Hoping and Wishing

20.1. You need a Burning Desire

20.1.1. An obsession

20.1.2. Anything else will not work

20.2. 2. Wishing and Hoping

20.2.1. Tony Robbins

20.2.1.1. Hope is the battle cry of the WIMP - Tony Robbins

20.2.2. 2. Stop Wishing. Stop Hoping.

20.2.2.1. 1. Decide that you have to be successful. Decide that it must happen

20.2.3. 3. When you want success as bad as you want to breathe then you will be successful

20.3. Think and Grow Rich

20.3.1. There is a reason why it is the 1st chapter in the greatest self help books of all time

20.3.1.1. It is the 1st step towards all great achievements

20.3.2. Here is what he said in the book:

20.3.2.1. "A burning desire to be, and to do is the starting point from which the dreamer must take off. Dreams are not born of indifference, laziness, or lack of ambition."

20.3.3. One of the most important keys to success is a burning desire

20.3.3.1. Not an ordinary desire

20.3.3.2. Not hope or wish

20.3.4. Why do we need a burning desire?

20.3.4.1. Because ordinary desires do not enroll the immense power of our sub-conscious mind

20.3.4.2. We need to harness the power of SCM in order to do great things

20.3.4.3. We need to burn with that desire

20.3.5. Your sub-conscious mind needs to be charged up with that burning desire

20.3.5.1. To the point that nothing matters

20.4. Be Obsessed or be average - Grant Cardone

20.4.1. The title of the book is an absolute truth

20.4.2. Great Success requires a crazy obsession

20.4.3. Otherwise we are mired in mediocrity

20.4.4. If you are not accomplishing big goals

20.4.4.1. You are obsessed about the wrong things.

20.5. How to be Rich - Felix Dennis

20.5.1. Compulsion is very different from desire. A person with compulsion says, “I will do whatever it takes to get to this goal. I will do whatever it takes to get to this dream, to this destination that I'm after.” Compulsion is much more intense than just a regular desire.

20.5.2. Most people have hopes and wishes and dreams

20.5.2.1. But you need compulsion

21. 8. Sense of complacency

21.1. 7. Waiting for the PERFECT time to take action

21.1.1. 1. Now is the only time you have

21.2. 4. The idea that Somehow, Someday it will all work out

21.2.1. 1. It will not happen

21.2.1.1. Dreams don't just come true

21.2.2. Insidious Notion

21.2.2.1. Someday

21.2.2.2. One day

21.2.3. Someday never comes, my friend

21.2.4. You succeed because you gave it everything

21.2.4.1. Not because it just happened

21.2.5. 10x Rule

21.2.5.1. Success is your duty

21.2.5.2. Success is your responsibility

21.2.5.3. You have to pursue success

21.2.5.4. You have to go after it

21.2.6. Be Obsessed or be average

21.2.6.1. You have to obsess about it

21.2.6.2. If you are not obsessing about it

21.2.6.2.1. You are getting mediocre results

21.2.6.3. You have to pursue success relentlessly

21.2.6.4. Be Obsessed or be average

21.2.6.4.1. Commit now - Figure it out later

21.2.6.4.2. Create a sense of urgency in your life

21.2.7. Give up that entitlement mentality

21.2.7.1. You are smart, intelligent etc

21.3. Develop a maniacal sense of URGENCY

21.3.1. NOW

21.3.2. FAST

21.4. You feel that you have all the time in the world

21.5. Every day, we are moving one day closer to death

21.6. Seneca said in the book "On the shortness of life":

21.6.1. We act like mortals in face of all that we fear and

21.6.2. We act like immortals in face of all that we desire

21.6.3. We have to invert that

21.6.4. What happens when we act like immmortals in face of all that we desire?

21.6.4.1. We feel we have infinite time

21.6.4.2. We become compacent

21.6.5. We must act like mortals in face of all that we desire

21.6.5.1. We dont have enough time

21.6.5.2. Time is running out

21.6.5.3. We need a sense of urgency

21.6.6. What happens when we act mortal in face of all that we fear?

21.6.6.1. We don't attack our fears

21.6.6.2. We don't try to conquer them

21.6.6.3. We don't expand our comfort zones.

21.6.7. We have to act like we are immortals in face of all that we fear

21.6.7.1. So we take action in face of fear

21.6.7.2. So that we courageously move forward without fearing the repurcussions

21.7. We must develop this insane sense of URGENCY

21.7.1. SPEED

21.7.2. Do it NOW

21.7.3. DOn't wait

21.7.4. Dont second guess

21.7.4.1. Time is running out

21.8. Magic of Thinking Big

21.8.1. We must develop the attacking mindset

21.8.2. Action and Attack are very underrated.

21.8.3. Action precedes action

21.8.4. "NOW" is the magic word for success

21.8.5. Tomorrow, sometime, later etc are the synonyms of NEVER - and that leads to failure

21.8.6. Dont wait. Attack NOW