At a road crossing and no idea which turn to take?
Sometimes it helps to get clear about some "Trivialities". Honestly and completely.
This map might help you to take a tour through a process of self evaluation compiling relevant information in order to SEE what needs to be done and how.
Including friends will certainly help. Not those friends which tell you what you want to hear. I'm thinking of friends who give you their truth about you. Unabridged. Unaltered. Sometimes painful.
Listen ...