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Social Effectiveness Skills by Mind Map: Social Effectiveness Skills
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Social Effectiveness Skills

Receiving communication

Listening

Hearing voice tone

Reading faces

Reading body language

Modeling people

Human psychology, Read psychology textbooks, Read evolutionary psychology textbooks

Building a model

Nonverbal communication

Gestures

Touch ('haptics')

Greeting, Handshake, Hugging, Light touch greeting

Conversational touching, Warm touching, Comfort touching, Touching for flirting

Sex, Kissing, Foreplay, Non-penetrative sex, Penetrative sex

Body language

Sitting posture

Standing posture

Walking

Hand placement

Facial expression

Eye contact

Holding eye contact

Timing eye contact

Fashion

Basic principles

Women's fashion

Men's fashion

Hair

Vocal qualities

Voice tone & pitch

Voice rhythm

Hygiene

Diet & fitness

Diet, Eating the right things, Controlling appettite, Food habits

Activity, Exercise, Lifestyle activity

Symbols & handwriting

Physical space

Verbal communication

Conversation procedures

Opening, Warning/notifying a stranger, Opening a stranger, Opening a small group, Opening a large group, Opening for romantic interest, Man opening a woman, Woman opening a man, Man opening a man, Woman opening a woman

Closing

Transitions

Situational conversations

Humor

Persuading

Storytelling

Educating

Inspiring

Relationship management

Networking for business

Boundaries / professionalism

Allocating money

Allocating time

Dating

Boundaries

Allocating money

Allocating time, ...for one partner, ...for multiple partners

Family & friends

Wellbeing

Confidence

Happiness & satisfaction

Motivation

Increasing expectancy, Use success spirals, Use vicarious victory, Use mental contrasting

Increasing value, Get in 'flow', Trace the task's purpose, Use rewards

Handling impulsiveness, Commit now, Set goals

Handling delay, Break projects into small, rewarding bits

Courage

Values & goals

Choosing & noticing your values

Choosing & specifying goals

Superskills (requiring combinations of above skills)

Gaydar

[everything in 'receiving communication']

Improvisation

Acting

Public speaking

Leading & managing groups

Attraction & dating

[everything in 'wellbeing', 'relationship management -> dating', 'verbal communication', 'nonverbal communication', and 'receiving communication']

Recommended Reading, by section: http://tinyurl.com/SocialSkillsMap