1. Myers-Briggs result
1.1. I (introverted) N (intuitive) F (Feeling) J (Judging)
1.1.1. The three traits that reflects me are: Reluctant to open up: I find it hard to open up and express my emotions properly to other people, even to my close friends. Oftenly because I ended up feeling too much and having no words to describe my emotions. This leads to a lot of misunderstanding and I feel like I’m annoying the other person. Relationships with an Infj are not for the uncommitted or the shallow: This is also true, even though I don’t have a lot of experiences with relationships–I tend to be very committed and it gets frustrating when my partner doesn’t take it seriously. Loyalty and authenticity: When I find the right group of people to hang out with, I tend to be very loyal to them. I find myself never wanting to betray them, and most of the time–it’s them who betrays me.
1.2. Traits that does not reflect me: Passionate: I spent the majority of my lives going through many phases where I think I’m very passionate about something. However, I dropped them all because I didn’t believe in myself. My low self esteem and insecurity was stronger than my passion. Advocates might seek out “perfect” partners: While it is true that I have high standards, I would not go as far as striving for perfection. That would be boring though because your partner is everything you expected, I prefer some tolerable flaws here and then because no one is perfect. Be unique just like me: When it comes to parenthood, even though I don’t plan on having a kid–I will teach my child to be whoever they want. Nothing wrong with being basic or joining in the crowds
2. High5 results
2.1. My top 5 strengths in order: (1) Empathizer, (2) Thinker, (3) Coach, (4) Problem solver, (5) Strategist
2.1.1. Connections and similar between the strengths: I think the empathizer and coach have connections to each other because the ability to empathize and understand people– is connected to the fact that I can see potential in other people (coach), this allows me to help them reach their success at their own pace. Thinkers, problem solvers, and strategists are related to each other because they all involve very deep thinking. It takes one to be in their head to be all three of these strengths.
2.1.2. The strength I feel most proud of: Being an empathizer because I think being able to stand on common grounds with people, and understand them–is a gift and a blessing that not everyone has. I’m proud about this because I only want the best for my loved ones, it’d make me the happiest if I could put myself in his shoes
3. Sokanu career test
3.1. Two careers suggested by the test:
3.1.1. Dog walker: Even though I love dogs and animals, and it would be lovely to go on a walk with them. I don't feel like this would be a job I would take, if I was to choose a career path. The salary is quite low but I might take it as a side hobby.
3.2. Archaeologist: Similar to anthropology, I love digging for historical pieces and preserving them. The studying of our ancestors is what drives me to love history, it would be amazing if I can actually put my hand/see a historical object with my own eyes.
4. I also love listening to music, I have a very versatile taste.
4.1. Due to my reluctant to open up, I tend to listen to music and distract myself.
4.1.1. I also love to study and watch history related videos on Youtube. Especially about ancient civilizations!