1. Surrender
1.1. Alot of times in our attempt to get to the original Adam, we will have moments of vulnerability. We view these moments of "weakness" as bad, but weakness is no sin. Infact it actually these moments of weakness or sadness those are very powerful. They give glimpses into our story, into our world and are very powerful. These moments are symbolic of who you are and are very powerful.
1.1.1. 3:10 to Yuma (11/11) Movie CLIP - One Tough Son of a Bitch (2007) HD
1.1.2. Private Ryan ; Cpt Miller crying
1.1.3. Hostiles emotional scene "Guilt & Grief" (2017)
1.2. Overt Strength or power is rarely sexy. In this internet age, the world is full of wannabee conquerors. Surrendering is a display of actual strength though. Someone who is living there truth and is not afraid. Dont overplay your hand or seem to be angling for power. These moments drop the defensive of others and give them glimpse into the human you are. What is natural about you is almost seductive. The things we seem unable to control and what make us human. That is the power of a child.
1.2.1. David After Dentist
1.2.2. 3 Year old crying over Justin Bieber
1.3. Never over play your hand or seem to be angling for power. This can be seen as pathetic
1.3.1. Hostiles - Burial Scene (HD)
2. Character
2.1. basics
2.1.1. wild independence has a provocative effect on us. Which in turn makes us want to tame it
2.1.1.1. What are the 3 things that matter most in your life?
2.1.2. People who understand themselves are almost mysterious. They put others in an inferior position of trying to figure them out
2.1.2.1. Which can create suspense for what will happen next. Like a movie
2.1.3. When you discover your self and your true heart, you move through life providing pleasure. Like a bee that collects pollen from a flower and spreads it to other flowers.
2.1.4. As you gain more and more of a understanding of who you are, your reputation will proceed you and the media will cover you for days and any and all events.
2.1.4.1. Adhemar Thoroughly Examines the Tournament Results
2.1.5. Overt strength and power is rarely sexy—it makes us afraid, or envious. The royal road to seduction is to play up your vulnerability and helplessness.
2.1.5.1. Which is why when you do exhibit strength, it is so much more eventful and the media will cover it for weeks
2.1.5.1.1. They'll Hang me in the Morning
2.1.6. Anything natural has a huge effect on us. A thunderstorm, ocean waves ect. That is why a child has such a profound effect on us. They represent a world that is forever gone and that we want back.
2.1.6.1. Musical Savant The Great Derek Pavacini!
2.1.6.2. Spanish Caravan
2.1.7. People who display no weaknesses, on the other hand, often elicit envy, fear, and anger—we want to sabotage them just to bring them down.
2.1.7.1. Rodin and Woody
2.1.7.2. Midnight in Paris - funny scene
3. Overview
3.1. The most satisfying way to live is from your true heart to get to our original self, our original Adam. When your are free from the world and live from a place of deep flowing. Your heart is you. This is a guide to help you on the adventure that is right in front of you.
3.2. In this age of information, it can be so difficult to filter what we let into our heart and mind. The world is filled with those trying to get back to the original self and can use false means of doing so. Having a guide to understand and protect you us important. As these concepts get into your system, you will develop your "flow". The more you understand these concepts and idea's the more you'll pull others into your "flow".
3.3. At the end of the day, good things matter and are worth fighting for. Innocence matters and it takes a strong masculine or feminine presence to win.
4. Attention
4.1. Basics
4.1.1. One of the biggest mistakes we make is what we give our hearts and minds to. Your heart is the well spring of life. What are you giving it to today?
4.1.1.1. A great explanation of this is understanding the Bay of Pigs on the lower end of the spectrum and Muhammad Ali vs Joe Frazier on the complete opposite end of the spectrum. When JFK was elected president, he represented a golden, bright future for America. His engagment in the Bay of Pigs turned Che Guevara from a grungy hippy into a revolutionary hero. JFK was a shining prince and by engaging in something as petty as the Bay of Pigs, Che Guevara was able to latch onto that and turn himself into a "Hero". Muhammad Ali fully engaged all of his emotions with Joe Frazier because he was a worthy opponent. By doing this it brought out the best in Ali and made for some of the greatest fights in the history of the sport.
4.1.1.1.1. What are 3 thing that are worthy of your engagement?
4.1.2. Uncontrollable desire makes you seem weak, unworthy, pathetic. If you are thinking outside of the things that God gave you, that is weakness (The feminine kind)
4.1.2.1. This is a great clip that demonstrates someone who is putting there own insecruity and projections ahead of living from there true heart.
4.1.2.1.1. John Eldredge author of "Wild at Heart" on CNN
4.1.3. Anger is a sign of enslavement. Whoever is making you angry owns you.
4.1.3.1. What are 3 things making you angry or emotional?
4.1.4. Instead of attention...think of it like desire. When you pay attention to someone you open yourself up to there influence.
4.2. These are 2 completely opposite ends of the spectrum. One is showing what happens when we engage and the kind of dance we create. The other is what happens when we ignore and focus on what is ahead. Remember, Kings don't fuss with cowards. When you are in your flow, you will find those who are not willing to work to get in there own flow. They are wannabee hero's that are focused on only themselves. By them attacking you, they are trying to get a little taste of Heaven that you exhibit. They have to earn that though.
4.2.1. Marine Road Rage
4.2.2. Bridesmaids: 'Best Friend Speech' Scene
4.3. When you let others take you out of your focus of your family and business, why?
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