Charisma

1. Mindset

1.1. Be a giver: give before receiving

1.2. Don't act self-important

1.3. Limit "have-to"s. Take responsibility

1.4. Be humble. Admit your own failings

1.5. Be positive and upbeat

1.6. Hum songs that make you happy

1.7. Make others laugh and brighten their day

1.8. Make others perceive that you are able to make the world move around you

2. Body

2.1. Smile more

2.2. Maintain eye contract

2.3. Respond non-verbality. Show more facial expressions

2.4. Be physically comfortable. Own your style

2.5. Avoid fidgeting

2.6. Power pose

3. Communication

3.1. Listen more than you talk

3.2. Ask questions more than you offer advice

3.3. Don’t practice selective hearing

3.4. Give your full attention; put your phone away

3.5. Praise others more frequently

3.6. Don’t gossip about others

3.7. Learn to read other people’s emotions and react accordingly

3.8. Share stories and anecdotes — become a better storyteller

3.9. Use words that people can relate to

3.10. Don’t think about what you’re going to respond while the other is talking

3.11. Wait 2 seconds before responding