7. Beginning to portray rebellious behavior to parents
8. AGE 12
9. starts to identify myself with peers around my age and starts to separate from parents
10. begin to actively participate in school extra curriculum activities like sports and music
11. AGE 15
12. First realization of own sexuality and become aware of my disinterest when girls started asking me for dates
13. Started develop a desire to be popular in school and to be included in activities
14. Neglected studies due to excessive extra curriculum activities and lack of discipline
15. AGE 16 -18
16. started finding comfort in computer games and become addicted
17. Lack of communication with family
18. AGE 19 - 21
19. National Service years filled with emotional stress of trying to fit in and finding a sense of purpose in life.
20. Father was ill and passed away when I was 17 years old, had issues reconciling with past emotions and was unable to make peace, resulting in further stress and conflict with family.
21. Physical Changes
22. AGE 9
23. AGE 12
24. Testicular/penile growth
25. Voice changes and become deeper
26. Signs of Pubic hair appears
27. Nocturnal emissions & growth spurt
28. AGE 15
29. Calves and Quadriceps muscles developed quickly as I took an interest in track & field and jogging
30. AGE 19
31. Started gaining muscles and getting body tone due to national service
