D.E.C.I.D.E

1. Consider the Consequences

1.1. They agree to you not coming

1.2. You have a fun time at the party

1.3. You get caught at the party

1.4. Somebody told you off

2. Identify your values

2.1. You wish to be a Good Citizen

2.2. You want to be the best person you can be

2.3. You want your family to be proud of you

2.4. You want to do the best in Life

3. Decide and Act

3.1. You don't go sneaking off to the party

3.2. You tell your parents what's happening

4. Define The Problem

4.1. Your friends ask you to sneak into a party

5. Explore the Alternatives

5.1. Tell them your not coming

5.2. Sneak off with friends

5.3. Tell your parents whats happening

5.4. Tell them to consider the consequences

6. Evaluate your results

6.1. Your friends get in trouble they understand that you did it for the best