How to speak so that people want to listen

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1. Seven habits that we need move away from.

1.1. Gossips

1.1.1. Speaking ill of somebody who's not present

1.2. Judging

1.3. Negativity

1.3.1. It's hard to listen when somebody's that negative.

1.4. Complaining

1.4.1. We complain about every thing

1.5. Execuses

1.5.1. They just pass it on to everybody else and don't take responsibility for their actions

1.6. Lying

1.7. Dogmatism

1.7.1. The confusion of facts with opinions.

2. About the speaker

2.1. Julian Treasure

2.2. Sound consultant

2.3. He studies sound and businesses on how best to use it.

3. Advices to speak powerfully

3.1. Several vocal warm-up exercises that we do before every talk.

3.2. Listen better

3.2.1. Listening is the missing half of communication

3.2.2. We should listen at least twice as much as we speak

3.2.3. listening is key for develop our speaking

3.2.4. Listening is a relationship with sound

3.3. Simple exercises and practice to develop our voices

4. Four powerful foundation if we want our speech to be powerful

4.1. Honesty

4.1.1. being true in what you say, being straight and clear

4.2. Authenticity

4.2.1. just being yourself

4.3. Intigrety

4.3.1. being your word, actually doing what you say, and being somebody people can trust

4.4. Love

4.4.1. wishing people well.

5. Some tools which will increase the power of our speaking

5.1. Register

5.1.1. You can locate your voice. If we talk up here in my nose, you can hear the difference. If I go down here in my throat, which is where most of us speak from most of the time

5.2. Timre

5.2.1. It's the way your voice feels. the research shows that we prefer voices which are rich, smooth, warm.

5.3. Prosody

5.3.1. This is the sing-song, the meta-language that we use in order to impart meaning.

5.4. Pitch

5.4.1. pitch often goes along with pace to indicate arousal