POLITENESS

1. FACE (one's public image)

1.1. FACE WANTS

1.1.1. TYPE

1.1.1.1. positive face

1.1.1.2. negative face

1.2. ACT

1.2.1. face-threatening

1.2.2. face-saving

1.2.2.1. negative politeness (deference strategy)

1.2.3. solidarity

1.2.3.1. positive politeness

2. STRATEGY

2.1. Pre-sequences

2.1.1. pre-request

2.1.1.1. before a request

2.1.2. pre-invitation

2.1.2.1. before invitation

2.1.3. pre-announcement

2.1.3.1. before announcement/telling something

2.2. Say nothing

2.2.1. done in act without utterances

2.2.1.1. lose a pen, acting searching for pen in hope others realize and would lend

2.3. Say something

2.3.1. off-record (indirect)

2.3.2. bald on-record (direct)

2.3.2.1. mitigating devices

2.3.2.1.1. 'please'

2.3.2.1.2. 'would'