Firmer and Gentler Relationship

1. Model the behavior

1.1. setting yourself as an example that is worth following to other members

2. Explain expectations and consequences

2.1. Let every family member understand their responsibility consequences must be clarified, so they will also know their accountability.

3. Remember God

3.1. Acknowledge God as the Source, great provider, and the center of the relationship. pleasing both to God and others.

4. Nurture trust

4.1. promotes dignity and integrity in the relationship. it challenges the person to do better because others

5. Pray always

5.1. Seek strength and help from God in all circumstances A family that prays together stays stronger.

6. Nourish each other

6.1. Nourish the family with kindness and gentleness. Stop being rude or harsh toward each other.

7. Respect Individuality

7.1. Give higher regard by appreciating the uniqueness of every member Respect can be earned without comparing one with another

8. Give love and forgiveness

8.1. give love and accept love it is the core of relationships to make it stronger and better

9. Learn good communication

9.1. promotes knowledge and understanding of the situation in the family. expressing one's concerns and feelings, not blaming and condemning others.

10. Listen attentively

10.1. Give your attention to the one who has concerns enables you to understand the motives, feelings, and ideas of others deeper the understanding between each family member, the stronger the family is.

11. Take time together

11.1. Spending time together helps to know each other better promote authentic and stronger relationships

12. Accept failures

12.1. Nobody is perfect; everyone makes mistakes. gives room for learning and improvement in your relationship.