Stress

1. Don't problem solve too early

2. Repair

3. Doing fun things together

4. Anger

4.1. Revenge

4.2. Protection

4.3. Distraction

5. Log

5.1. 05-09-21 Making milk twice due to lack of communication

6. Ok to be angry

7. Distract yourself

8. J

8.1. Ragini

8.1.1. Threat of drinking problems

8.1.2. Daily time support (therapy)

8.1.3. Requirement to go on holidays each year

8.2. Birju

8.2.1. Drinking problems

8.3. Paresh

8.3.1. Reena Foi

8.3.2. Money challenges

8.3.3. Does not want to go to Kenya

8.3.4. Nehali wedding

8.4. Jessel

8.4.1. Pharmacy

8.4.2. Regular drinking

8.5. Kids

8.5.1. Ayanie

8.5.2. Kyaan

8.5.2.1. Be nicer to Kyaan - no longer run expiriment?

8.5.3. Nyelen

8.5.4. Need to contribute more to kids organisation (e.g. booking summer clubs)

8.5.5. Make sure drop-off/pick-up contribution is equal

9. Don't disagree with J in public

10. Confusion

11. Lack of Communication

12. Lower productivity

13. Money

13.1. Spending too much on luxury

14. Comments are misunderstood

15. Issues

15.1. Inability to achieve potential as only 90% productive

16. 90/10

16.1. Credibility weight comments

17. Contradictions

18. Frustration

19. Ask how J is - after any duration apart