J.Lichning xushmuomalalik tamoyili
by Shoira Sarimsakova
1. 4. Kamtarlik
1.1. O'zini kamsitish (agar samimiy bo'lsa ham, bo'rttirilgan bo'lsa ham) ko'pincha xushmuomalalik sifatida qabul qilinadi ("fishing for compliments")
1.2. .
1.2.1. (8)A: . . . I’m so dumb, I don’t even know it. hhh! heh (9)B: Y-no, y- you’re not du:mb.
1.2.1.1. (10)I’m so dumb.I can’t believe it has taken me so long to figure out such I’m a simple question!’ (11) ‘Come on! If you were dumb, there wouldn’t exist any smart guy in the world!’
2. 5. Kelishuv
2.1. Muloqotda kelishuvni maksimal darajada oshirish va kelishmovchiliklarni minimallashtirish
2.2. (12)A: It’s a beautiful view, isn’t it? (13)B: Yeah, absolutely gorgeous.
2.2.1. Bu yerda intensifikatsiya kelishuvning muloqot ta'sini kuchaytiradi. B gapdagi yengillashtirilgan kelishun teskari ta'sirga ega
2.3. Kelishmovchiliklarda ingliz tilida so'zlashuvchilar kelishmovchilikni kuchaytirish o'rnigaqisman, himoyalangan yoki bilvosita kelishmovchilikni yumshatadigan nutq birliklaridan foydalanadilar
3. 6. G'amxo'rlik
3.1. Boshqalarning his-tuyg'ulariga g'amxo'rlik ko'rsatishni hamdardlik va tushunishni ifodalaydigan xushmuomala so'zlardan foydalanish
3.2. Congratulations! Well done. Have a good time! Enjoy your meal.
3.3. (14) Warmest congratulations! (15) I was so terribly sorry to hear about.. . (16) I do hope she’s feeling much better.. . (17) Have a wonderful time!
4. 1. Olijanoblik
4.1. adresant o'z shaxsiy manfaatlarini minimallashtiradi va adresatning ijtimoi qiyofasifa, ehtiyojiga ko'proq e'tibor beradi.
4.2. Masalan , takliflar, vadalar tinglovchiga nisbatan saxiyli bo'lishi mumkin va odatda ingliz madaniyatida bunday so'rovlar bevosita, xattoki majburlash orqali ifodalanadi.
4.3. (1) You must come and stay with us next time. I won’t take “no” for an answer! (2) Come on! Sit down and have a nice cup of coffee. (3) No you don’t! I’ll pay for this. I insist.
5. 2. Odob qoidasi
5.1. muloqotda majburlashni minimallashtirish va noqulaylik keltiradigan xatti-harakatlardan qochish orqali rad etish imkoniyatini beradi.
5.2. Bilvosita nutq vositalaridan foydalanish
5.3. (4) A: Could I help myself to a tiny sip of sherry? (5) B: Of course you can! Have as much as you like. .
6. 3. Ma'qullaish
6.1. Tanqidni minimallashtirish va maqtovni maksimallashtirish
6.2. muloqotda iltifotli so'zlarni ishlatish va tanqidga xushmuomallaik bilan yondashish
6.3. (6) A) ‘It’s a great honour for us to have invited Professor * who has made great contribution to the * field to give us a lecture. (7) B)You could have done better. It wasn’t terribly good.
7. Do you really think so? I would have thought . . .Yes, but don’t you think . . . ? I agree, but. . . .
7.1. Do you really think so? I would have thought . . .Yes, but don’t you think . . . ? I agree, but. . . .u
8. really think so? I would have thought . . .Yes, but don’t you think . . . ? I agree, but. . . .