Domestic Violence/ Relationship abuse
by Syd Marcum
1. Physical
2. Which relationship is the victim more willing to stay in
3. Looking or acting in a way that puts you in fear
4. Threatening to harm you or children
5. Destroying property
6. Sudden rage
7. Intimidating you with guns knives or other weapons
8. Sexual abuse
9. pulling hair, punching, slapping or kicking
10. prevention from police or medical atention
11. prevention from eating or sleeping
12. forcing to dress in a sexual way
13. calling sexually insulting names
14. forcing or manipulating into sex
15. holding you down during sex
16. demanding sex when you are sick tired or hurt
17. hurting you
18. involving other people against your will
19. forcing you to watch pornography
20. making you feel like you owe thaem
21. forcing drugs an alcohol on you
22. trying to normalize their actions
23. sabotaging birth control methods
24. forcing pregnancy
25. forcing or preventing an abortion
26. Emotional
27. How long has the relationship been
28. Controlling or possessive behavior
29. Cant do anything right
30. Jealousy
31. Insulting
32. calling you names
33. refusing to trust you
34. isolating you
35. humiliating
36. blaming you
37. cheating
38. purposely trying to pass you a sexually transmitted disease
39. refusing to use a condom or other forms of birth control
40. denying access to money
41. using your or your children's savings against your will
42. puts you on strict budget of your own money
43. puts your money in their bank account so they have control
44. taking tax returns
45. sends you explicit photos and demands you send them in return
46. cant talk to family or friends
47. steals or demands you give them your passwords
48. goes through private life or phone
49. puts you down on social media
