D: Someone begins bullying you amongst your peers. The dimension of wellness being affected are s...

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D: Someone begins bullying you amongst your peers. The dimension of wellness being affected are social wellness and emotional wellness. by Mind Map: D: Someone begins bullying you amongst your peers. The dimension of wellness being affected are social wellness and emotional wellness.

1. DAA: Deciding on the choice of talking to him about how I feel is probably the best choice because I think I can articulate my words to help the bully feel remorse and understand the crimes he is doing to me.

2. E: One alternative is that you can talk to him about how you feel like you're being picked on.

3. I: The personal values you must uphold is honour, never to go down into the same route as the bully. Another one is to never snub him in a horrific way, instead, being calm and collected when doing these decisions. Another is to be understanding, trying to explore deeper on the disposition of his actions.

4. E: I just have done these steps. The bully stopped bothering me, and started to become a close acquaintance. He only says thoughtful and meaningful things to me. When he criticises, he does it in a supportive way. I have a much more jubilant exterior and interior at school because that is one less thing to worry about. Others are also a bit more jubilant because the bully stopped bothering them too because he practiced with me. Learning from all of this, I now know that people deserve a second chance to do the right thing. To do what is necessary. That they are capable of doing that. If I could do it differently, I would try to have a better way of starting the conversation with him because lunch time is one of the only free periods in school that he will get.

5. C: The consequence of this is he could ignore you, and continue to bully you further.... perhaps target you even more because of what you said. But a slimmer of hope remains that he will realise how you feel, and put an end to it. The chances are not calculable because it depends on how well you can speak.

6. E: Another alternative is that you could always tell a counselor to help be the mediator which could help your relationship significantly.

7. C: The consequence of this is that the bully could ignore the counselor's words, and ridicule you for bringing an adult into the equation because he would say something along the lines of 'be a man'. The target, however, is that the bully will fear your power because the adults are on your side. It is quite risky and you are probably playing a 75 chance of failing.

8. DAA1: On October 5th, meet the bully at his lunch table, and quietly ask him if we can talk about some things.

9. DAA2: Say something along these lines. "Blank, I know that I'm probably the worst person in the world due to my incompetence. Due to my lack of intelligence. Due to my behaviour towards others. I know that you find these traits really bothersome and annoying. I know that some people really dislike these traits. However, I'm still human. You're human. We're brothers, don't you see? You- you complete me. But to consolidate, we need to settle some things. Please, stop using such a deplorable attitude to me. I really feel bad everyday when you do these types of things because they hurt. I don't know the real reason why you do them, but it really goes deep into my soul.

10. DAA3: Wait one week later and see how he reacts and treats me. If he keeps continuing, I fear I may have to go to an adult for help. On October 12th, go to a counselor and talk with him. The counselor, after hearing about how I tried to reason with him before, will set some ground rules for him regarding me.